Why is the world so cruel?

Question

I've always noticed that people judge others by their outside appearence and the biggest proof of that is that in schools and university's only the good looking people are famous..i find that annoying cauz what can not so attractive people do its not their fault that god chose not to bless them with charm..

Answer 1

Because it's human nature. I agree with you on all that you said. And God says that when you judge someone,then you will also be judged. That's the way it goes. It's not about what's on the outside,but what counts is on the inside. Hope I could help.

Answer 2

Not cruel, only unfair. There is truth to the saying that "beauty is a joy forever" because mankind appreciates natural beauty including the so-called lucky ones who happened to have an umbrella (which they inverted) when God showered the world with his H&B blessings more than those who were sleeping at that time. But beauty like any other things on earth is relative. You can't appreciate something beautiful if you have not seen something in the opposite. In people, beauty is an advantage but it is lost if the inner beauty of the person is not there. People say that less attractive people nowadays are only those who are "lazy" or do not know how to beautify themselves coz the physical characteristics can be altered in so many ways with some efforts (which the naturally attractive people need not exert) that's why is unfair competition.

Answer 3

americans have brought this into society

making people think someone is better than another, just because of the car he drives, or the house in which he lives, or how good his kids are going.. jeeezzz.. its just bullshit

notice how all these famous attractive people are also stupid and no nothing about real life, because either, 1. there parents bought them everything, 2. they haven't had a job, or didnt need to work to survive,
3. they total sluts and make there money by scamming people and didnt work to get where they are.

Answer 4

A man goes to a shop, picks up a beautiful cup and says "my god this cup is so beautiful" and suddenly the cup starts talking to the man. The cup starts saying "O man, I am beautiful right now, but what was the state of my being before the pot-maker made me a beautiful pot?

Before I was sheer mud and the pot-maker pulled me out of the mud from the mother earth and I felt why that pot-maker is so cruel, he has separated me from mother earth. I felt a tremendous pain. And the pot-maker said, "Just wait." Then he put me and churned me, when I was churned I felt so giddy, so painful, so stressful, I asked the pot-maker "Why are you so cruel?" the pot-maker said, "Just wait." Then he put me into a oven and heated me up, I felt completely burnt. There was tremendous pain and I asked the pot-maker "Why are you so cruel?" and the pot-maker said, "Just wait."

Then he poured hot paint on me and I felt the fume and the pain, I again asked the pot-maker "Why are you so cruel?" and the pot-maker said, "Just wait." Then again he put me into an oven and heated it to make me more strong, I felt life is so painful hence pleaded the pot-maker and the pot-maker said, "Just wait." And after that the pot-maker took me to the mirror and said, "Now look at yourself". And surprisingly I found myself so beautiful.

When god gives us lot of trouble, it appears god is very cruel but we need patience and we have to wait. When bad things happen to good people, they become better and not bitter.

So all difficulties are part of a cosmic design to make us really beautiful. We need patience, we need understanding, we need the commitment to go through in a very calm and wise way. So all difficulties are not to tumble us but to humble us.

With this understanding, let us not be against difficulty. Understand difficulty is a part of a purifying process. A purifying process at present which we cannot understand and hence we need faith and we need trust.

Let us understand how to handle stress with this background. You can be affected by stress from two angles. There is an internal stress and there is an external stress. Nobody can avoid stress; one has to only manage stress. Managing stress can be internal and also external.

The internal stress is; your thoughts can create stress, your values can create stress, and your beliefs can create stress, meaning thereby your stress is coming from your mind more from the outer world. Many people suffer not from heart attack - they suffer from thought-attack.

For example, when somebody says you are an idiot, we get so hurt, we get so victimised. My boss has called me an idiot and I am feeling tremendous pain. Now where does this stress come from? If my boss has called me an idiot, I have to ask myself "am I an idiot"?

If I am an idiot nothing to be upset about; and if I am not an idiot, then also nothing to be upset about! It is the perception of the boss. But why do we suffer from that stress? I suffer not because my boss has called me an idiot but because of the thought-attack.

I may say the boss has called me an idiot; therefore I am suffering? It is true that the words are unpleasant. But what hurts is the interpretation of the unpleasant word. The thought in me interprets. That is pain and therefore it becomes pain. Much of our stress is our mind interpreting it as pain. So we suffer from thought-attack more than heart attack.

Answer 5

Outside beauty fades...fast! But what's on the inside lasts!

Answer 6

People on this board judge me by my name.....just because I am F A G munch they automatically assume that I am a creep!!! The world sucks sometimes!

Answer 7

But it is up to you on how beautiful you are!

I am chubby- but I am confident (not arrogant) and I fix myself up, get mt hair and nails done, I dress up and go out and have a great time!

I don't care if another girl is skinner than me, or longer hair than me, or taller than e or has more money than me, I just enjoy myself, be confident, and love you're self... you are all you have!

Answer 8

hey evevrybody in the world has proplems of loving hope they get it right someday in the meantime be good help others and treat people the best that you can in goodness thats of your heart brother man Godbless

Answer 9

We have been decieved. And people today are angry
and afraid. And if they remain in denial over it, how can they overcome it?

Answer 10

Good question