difference between life before marriage and after?

Answer 1

before marriage wondered what it must be like to have someone totally committed to only me

after - sigh

Answer 2

Before marriage: you can be as selfish as you want
After marriage:you have to be considerate of your spouse's feelings. I've been married to my husband for 4 years,we dated for 3 and basically the only change is having to be more considerate to each others need..I can't blow money on shoes anymore,because we have bills and have to discuss the money. Marriage can be a lot of fun if you let it. We each have a night where we hang with friends and then a night where it is just us,so we can still be somwhat free. But it also takes time and patience and work,because you are combining a life with another person. Just remember to try and keep the relationship fun and romantic and you won't have all those problems.

Answer 3

Hi Box, Don't worry about your english you have writen enough for us to understand some of what youare asking. Besides many English people cannot ask questions correctly !!! I think youmay be refering to morality here and the differences which society places on the marriage ??? In many parts of the world marriage doesn't really mean as much as it did years ago. Marriage was asacred act and having children out of wedlock was illegal and both the mother and child were shamed. however, thankfully, this is mpre relaxed nowdays and there is no shame on the mother or child in being born out of wedlock ( marriage) Marriage is also legally binding and ti brings with it rights when a partner dies- although this is changing for unmarried couples- I don't know much about this aspect though. I hope this helps you???

Answer 4

More than I could get into. The differences depend on the individual. OBVIOUS difference is a change (sometimes total) in your lifestyle. Responsibilities. Compromises. Who makes decision when major issues are in conflict. Mundane every day stuff that can be annoying, but not avoided. Diminished autonomy. That's the bright side! No, seriously, some people adjust very well, with patience & sensitivity. & TIME. In my experience, these are in the minority. Even people who have "settled" rather comfortably into married life, continue to remember those wonderful years of freedom. I "assume" you're being serious?

Answer 5

You have a life before marriage you dont after.

Answer 6

BEFORE marriage you can walk away without it costing you a cent. Afterwards, you can't walk without it costing you, thousands!

BE SURE. BE POSITIVE that no matter WHAT life throws at the two of you, over the next 60 f#cking years, you are BOTH WILLING, and POSITIVE you can hack it. (And believe me life will throw some SH!T your way) Otherwise, YOU, not her, will end up paying for it, for a LONG TIME. (And the Courts DO NOT care, if YOU can't eat, or make YOUR rent, or make YOUR car payments, or lose YOUR life savings - you WILL pay. Period.)

Oh....and that thing she does with her tongue....That stops too. Cause she doesn't HAVE to do it after she marries you. She only did the tongue thing so you WOULD marry her......

Answer 7

With my relationship, nothing has really changed, other than the fact that I have health insurance now that I'm married. Some people change after marriage, and I don't think you should. You should always be yourself.

Answer 8

BEFORE: pamela anderson
AFTER: liza manelli

.....I'm messing with you! Before marriage you get the pleasure of sleeping and waking up by yourself every day, the pleasure of wondering who you should 'bone' for the night.

After marriage you have the pleasure of waking up with someone you're always fighting and arguing with, the pleasure of having sex with the same person year after year! ....any difference? lol

Answer 9

Before FUN.
After booooorrrrinnnng.

Answer 10

Before marriage you can have fun by yourself. After marriage you can't.

Answer 11

before you have a life and after you don't