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Question

in my dream...its about me and a guy..we like eachother or love...but we cant be together cuz we think we might hurt eachother again...im having dream about him everyday or 3 -5 times a week..i really want to know what it s..we know eachother in real life....we messed around..but i dont like him..i just wanna know why every dream i have with him..we want to be together..or love and like eachother

Answer 1

Sometimes, the people in our dreams become stand-ins for ourselves. Just because you dream about someone doesn't mean that the person is in your dream.

It sounds like you are wanting a relationship, not necessarily with him but in general (in 'love' with this person) but your past is preventing you from taking a chance (the fear that 'we' might hurt each other). And the only way you can confront your own inability to get past the past is to put part of the blame on someone else (which is why there is a 'we' in the dream). Because the blame partly rests upon this 'other' person, not only do you not have responsibility, but also, you remain stuck because the only person whom you can truly change is yourself.

It sounds like this relationship (and the messing around) brought up some issues with you that you are having a hard time accepting. Because you can't accept, the dream keeps coming back because its the only way your mind knows how to deal with the emotions. Again, even if he isn't the one you like, he is obviously a focus that your mind is using to get you to start breaking through to yourself. Use this to help understand and accept what it is you aren't letting go of, and the dream will go away.

Answer 2

"Be who you are and say what you feel, those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"

Answer 3

this might be helpful
http://spirita.blogspot.com/