my dad and mom are getting deforest what should i do ?

Answer 1

Everyone is confused. What is deforest. And I think from the start I think you meant "Divorced"
Well kid, I don't think you can do anything about it. There's not even a single thing. SO move one with life, things change.

Answer 2

The divorce is between your parents. It does not involve you. If you want to know why, do not pry now, but ask later, when times have calmed and everyone is less tense. Talk to your friends about it---don't keep pent up emotion.

While I can assure you the divorce is not because of you, I cannot assure you that you will allowed to take no part in it. You may be old enough to have some say in who you live primarily with and who you visit on a regular basis. Allow me to explain:

During a divorce, most often one parent takes custody of the child. The child then lives primarily with one parent, visiting the other perhaps every other weekend and once a week. This parent who is visited is the secondary guardian.

If you are asked to choose who to stay with primarily, refuse. Do not allow yourself to make such a choice. But do one thing--make sure you will see both your parents some of the time.

Any specific questions regarding divorce, or if you ever feel afraid, etc. please feel free to email me. I will do my best to help you cope as the situation progresses.

Answer 3

deforest? what the heck is deforest?

if you mean divorced...there is no one here that can seriously help you. you need to sit down with your parents and have a long talk. they will tell you the reasons why, and you can also express your feelings.

just come to the realization that you cannot get them back together, as hard as it is to deal with, you cannot get them back together.

Answer 4

It's tough. I just got divorced and my kids (all boys) are 13,11, and 9 have had a tough time. I guess what you can do is don't give your parents grief about it. You have no idea what is truly going on inside their marriage. My ex-husband had secrets even I didn't even know about for most of our marriage and when I did find out about the secrets and what they were, he tried to tell me those secrets were all my fault. I haven't yet shared all those secrets with my kids. They know some of them, but even my teenager doesn't know the biggest one that resulted in the divorce.

You have no idea what your mom and dad are going through and the best thing you can do for them is to be suportive and understanding that this is just as hard on them as it is on you.

If you are a terrific kid and do your best all the time that will do more for helping your parents sort this mess out than anything else. GL

Answer 5

Just love your mom and dad like you have always, and know it is not your fault!
Grown ups sometimes just don't get along with each other, and usually the kids get the worst end of the deal.
Just look it this way,
2 houses to live in, 2 different bedrooms and designed by you and 2 different ideas at the same time!

Answer 6

I know what you mean bc my parents are going though it right now and its hard for me to deal with it. I am 19 and i never thought that my parents would get a divorce but they are and that is the reality. they were married for 26 yrs. There are days when its so hard to deal with it and then there are days that is easy to deal with it. I take it day by day and remember that both of your parents do love you. I also have to quotes that i live by: 1 Everything happens for a Reason and 2. Life is balance between holding on and letting go. Well i wish you the best and good luck. jes

Answer 7

Is deforest a word?

Answer 8

Do you mean "divorced"?

Nothing you can do. This is between the 2 of them - you cannot help, and it is not your fault. All you can do is keep the lines of communication going between you and both of them. Don't take sides.

If you really mean "deforest", well, I don't know anything about trees. Sorry.

Answer 9

Deforest mon!

Answer 10

What's deforest?