So most of these threads I've read all say if you don't want to do something naughty with your spouse then you shouldn't. Why not? I'm sure most people out there have something they would like to do but their spouse wouldn't and probably the other way around too. If your spouse really wanted to do something with you (and only you), nobody else is involved, there's no chance (or very little chance) of getting hurt doing it, and they're really get off on it (even though you may think its yucky), why wouldn't you do it for them? If our spouses are supposed to know us better than ourselves then don't you think they might know what we'd like even if we don't realize it?
Also, I should note that I'm not trying to talk my wife into doing anything. Honestly, if anything, she's the one who's a bit more "pushy" than I am but I'm always happy to go along with it because I know she likes various things and makes me happy in return.
2006-12-21 13:05:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oooo, I said yucky so as not to offend some of the ladies on here, I'm not a man because I'm poilite!
2006-12-21 13:11:20 · update #1
As long as it wouldn't involve another person or pain (a little may be okay) then heck yeah, I always do anything naughty that he wants. And he likes trying the naughty things I come up with too:-)
2006-12-21 13:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by slpkwp 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Would I do something naugty just with my hubby and noone else will be hurt, and not going to cause problems with the law or anything, and I am in the care just with my husband,
ANYTHING GOES in the bedroom, That means from wierd to kinky sex and to anything else he wants, I want to be the hottest woman he ever known, and that he does not have to be looking anywhere else, but here, in our bedroom.
Roleplay, foreplay or what ever he desires, and he is the same for me.
A marriage is suppose to be safe haven for both the husband and the wife, and you are suppose to be an adventure in your relationship while being completely faithful to each other!
2006-12-21 21:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your spouse wants to try something new, you should try it, first you never know you may like it also, but even if you don't, in a relationship you have to have some give and take, sometimes you do things you don't exactly like doing just to make them happy and in return sometime there will be something you want to do that she doesn't and she will to make you happy....
2006-12-21 21:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by Justin M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think if both partners are happy and it involves no one else but the husband and wife and no real physical harm or pain a spouse should be wiilling to try and fulfill their spouses fantasy.
2006-12-21 21:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by Sally B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seem like a good idea to mix it up a bit. Maybe you could have a shoe box with all the naughty things you want to try and then on a given night, you draw one and try it. I like that idea...maybe she will too. And if she complains, hey, thats why the ball gags are so popular with you freaks. haaaaaaa.
2006-12-22 00:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by Marrs G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im with Ken "yucky"? cmon are you a man or what? maybe you should try new things I know its 06 but not 1806
2006-12-21 21:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What guy uses the word "yucky?" Do what your wife wants; it's the cardinal rule of marriage.
2006-12-21 21:07:46 · answer #7 · answered by KEN 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I love doing naughty things..love surprising him...I like to exlore differnt things together..life is short..you have to have fun and let loose at least in the bedroom!!..and out ;-)
2006-12-21 21:09:27 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would. Love and marriage means sacrificing sometimes to make the other one happy. As you have said, you do it for her, so why shouldn't she do it for you?
2006-12-21 21:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by Fruit Cake Lady 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would rather do naughty things with my husband then us do them with anyone else.
2006-12-21 21:16:12 · answer #10 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋