of their new family?
2006-12-21 13:04:28 · 7 answers · asked by nodumgys 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
..for 2 weeks. on the other side of the country.
2006-12-21 13:16:59 · update #1
Hunni i have to agree with sugaree, since darryl and i split i dread him having her every other 5 days and once again it worked out that she is with him for christmas, so i had no choice but to suck it up and invite him once again for dinner...when i went to b.c for those 10 days i was so worried about what would happen when i got back, he had a habit of trying to brainwash her when we were splitting up and always told her that mom was going to leave and go to b.c and not come back so i was freaking the whole time i was there. but it just proved to her what a liar her dad is. it sucks but the only advice i have for you is to try to occupy yourself as much as possible.....good luck and remember we are here for you if you need to vent ....hugs
2006-12-21 15:43:15 · answer #1 · answered by ROCKER CHICK 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would try to not let freaking out interfer with yahoo answers, it would be a shame for YA to suffer just because your flipping out. so is the new family a new chick?
2006-12-22 06:12:00 · answer #2 · answered by Chad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't freak out and I didn't have to tell myself anything. I enjoyed the quiet holiday. Visitations are what YOU make of them, they can either be positive or they can be negative, you have the choice. I chose to make them positive and they were GREAT.
2006-12-21 21:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i know, it's like your heart gets ripped out and goes with your child. the only thing i can say is try to occupy yourself with "things" so the time will seem like it goes by quickly. i know, not much help.
2006-12-21 22:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I just told myself that my kids were with someone who loved them as much as I do. I sent them off with a kiss. a smile, and hug and went to a grown up Christmas party!
2006-12-21 21:51:40 · answer #5 · answered by katydid 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
just keep yourself busy,some day he will have to do the same. been there and it will get easier with time.
2006-12-21 21:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by mawma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i told myself it was a day off. and that's this year. i will sit and cuddle with my husband with lots and lots of hot chocolate.
2006-12-21 21:12:59 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋