I know this is quite childish but I can't get over it. Well I had a boyfriend who I really fell in love with for the first time. But sometimes we faught and stopped talking for a while. Now we broke up a month ago and for the first time I cant get him out of my mind. I really love him but im gonna sound childish if I go back to him,even though he usually comes back to me. I can't forget him although I do try. Please dont reply saying thats childish because I really need help!
2006-12-21 12:39:31 · 12 answers · asked by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you love him swallow your pride and go get him :o♥
2006-12-21 12:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why try to forget your first love? It is an important part of the process of finding out who we are and what we want in a partner. It is probably time to move on. Cherish the good times you had with him and get involved in things you like to do with your other friends so that you don't get too obsessed about what might have been. When the time is right you will have more love in your life, sometimes for a short while and sometimes it will be for the rest of your life. That's the way life is.
2006-12-21 20:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by knittinmama 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well no matter who tells you different you can't make someone stay with you if they don't want you anymore. I'ts tough as hell. I know because I always fall for people that can never love me back. Have you tryed to do other things to take your mind off him ? . You should write your feelings down and keep track of how many times you miss him a day. Then find something fun ta do ..go out with friends and get your mind off him. If with in 6 months if you think about him every day and hes still not back. try to contact him and path things up. but take time for yourself first ..who knows you might find someone better.
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I hope I could help you.
2006-12-21 20:48:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing, it's hard to move on but it's the best thing to do b/c if you keep breaking up, that shows you're not really happy anyway. Now I have a great guy and every happy moment we have together, kind-of erases one of my memories with my ex. I still think about him but I know I could never be this happy with him. Just remember, sometimes you have to let go of someone you truly love to get someone that truly loves you!!
Good Luck girlie!!
2006-12-21 20:44:37 · answer #4 · answered by barefootmodel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont' get too worked up about it you'll get your feelings hurt. first think of why you broke up if it was something heartbreaking then just leave him..he's not the right one, if it was a mistake then keep pursuing him. talk to him about whats going right now tell him how you feel about this. and if you really can't stop thinking about him then its pretty clear what the decision is;) dont worry things will work out in the end.
2006-12-21 20:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by Andre J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress on it to much just move on you have to keep busy or Else you will think about him a lot the best thing you could do is let GO!
2006-12-21 20:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u cant forget him then just try to get back wit him and if that dont happen then u can always go to someone else and start over or u can wait for him.
2006-12-21 20:43:41 · answer #7 · answered by T.O. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Swallow your pride and give him a call, see if he's still free. If so invite him over to talk, see how he feels. If he feels the same maybe you can start dating again.
2006-12-21 20:50:44 · answer #8 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do is keep doing good i school and try to forget about him and also try to find someone new that likes you and maybe one day that boyfried you had will come back to you.(good luck)
2006-12-21 20:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by vanessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go talk to him...you'd feel tons better...and say really nice things about him when you talk...it makes you feel better as well!
2006-12-21 23:34:36 · answer #10 · answered by brain.dead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋