my wife of two years just left me cause of my family not me, what do I do?

Question

She tells me she still loves me I live in Texas, and she went back to Indiana, we both have children from different marriages, do I wait for her or move on?

Answer 1

hmm, do you let your family run your marriage? Are they by any chance a bit manipulative? If yes to either of those questions, I suggest you get the hell away from your family. You are not alone with this problem, its quite common. You need to decide if you want your family or your wife. She is a strong woman, probably a keeper! I would move to her.

Answer 2

If she left you for your family and you know that was the reason then why did you not support her with the problem she was having with them? You two are as one. Or were. If family is a problem on either side you both should stand united. You need to ascertain what you want. Stand by the decision you make. Talk to your wife and your family. Whatever you decide they all need to know the decision you make. Only you can stand on your word. No one else's. Good luck to all of you. Happy Holidays.

Answer 3

If you have to ask complete strangers this question, I would say she is probably better off without you. Do you love her? Does she love you? Can you blend two families without driving all of you nuts? You know, many times, love is just not enough. When you say "family", is it your children, your exwife, your parents? If it's your children, you should just "let it be." If will cause more damage to the children and as a parent, that's something you should consider very seriously. Best of luck to all of you.

Answer 4

You need to go after her, talk to her and DON'T let your family know you're going to do this. Find out the real reason she left and then go from there. Another thing, if she tells you about something that was said or done (by your family), then believe her, DON'T take up for your family, because she is supposed to be your family now.

Answer 5

NO, SHE LEFT YOU BECAUSE OF YOU?
SHE HAD TO HAVE AN EXCUSE TO LEAVE....AND BY THE WAY SHE DIDN'T MARRY YOUR FAMILY SHE MARRIED YOU....RIGHT? DON'T LET HER TELL YOU THAT LIE...ITS SOMETHING THAT SHE WANTED TO DO ALL THE TIME.. AND JUST MAYBE SHE DO LOVE YOU....BUT SHE'S NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU..THAT'S A DIFFERENT....AND IF YOU FEEL THAT YOU NEED TO MOVE ON ...SO BE IT...DON'T WASTE YOUR LIFE ON FALSE HOPES AND DREAMS......AND LET HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL....YOU GUYS BECAME ONE WHEN YOU MARRIED....SO SHE SUPPOSE TO HAVE STUCK BY YOU /WITH YOU...DON'T GIVE INTO HER....

Answer 6

What caused her to do this? Did your family say something to her? Were you living with your family or did you have your own place?

If she is still in love with you, why don't you go to IN and live there?

Answer 7

If your wife loved you, she would not have left you because of your family.. She would have sat down and found a solution.

It was suppose to be for better or worse and when things got worse she ran... I suggest you enjoy yourself and life. Eventually the right person will join you...

Answer 8

There must have been signs. Find out why she left and if you are willing to make the changes necessary. Just remember don't let her requests be too unrealistic.

Answer 9

You decide what you really want, and then you talk to her. The two of you are going to have to sit down and talk and come to some type of compromise that both of you can live with. God bless****

Answer 10

Move on and begin hiding money in case she tried to get support. Family is just one of the many excuses people use to leave. Get you ducks in a row for a divorce.