My husband treats me like i am something and the other man treats me like i am someone.
2006-12-21 12:31:20 · 33 answers · asked by Tegan G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the second has nothing too loose.... you need to make your husband see that he has everything too loose
at the least get marriage counciling..
2006-12-21 12:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I read about what you said about your husband treating you like something and the other guy treating you like you are someone. Sounds like he's the one you should be with. Why be with a guy who treats you other then someone. You should be with the one who treats you right and the one you love. If that's not your husband then you need to leave him. Everyone deserves to be with someone who treats them good. But only you can decided this and you need to.
2006-12-21 12:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you tried to work things out with your husband? Does he know how you feel? Are you sure you're "in love" with the someone else, or perhaps it is "in like" because he treats you the way you desire. Why not sit down and have a chat with your old man, and see if you can inspire him to treat you differently. Or, consider calling in the help of a Dr. Phil-type - go see a couples counselor. Or, you could go see someone yourself, and get their perspective, because they would know more about you than in this anonymous forum. You made a huge commitment in marriage, perhaps you owe it to yourself to at least try to work things out before you take off. I wish you well.
2006-12-21 12:36:03 · answer #3 · answered by amuse4you 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've obviously cheated on your husband if you think you are in love with someone else. So my advice is to give your husband the best present you can for Christmas. Give him a divorce. Tell him you didn't mean any of the vows you recited on your wedding day. Tell him you are a two-timing wh**e and don't deserve to have someone like him in your life. It won't take him long to get over you and then he'll find someone who treats him with respect. That way you can go to your lover, he can use you, and then throw you away when he's finished and you will end up getting everything you deserve. Good luck with that!
2006-12-21 12:40:46 · answer #4 · answered by truthseeker221 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Seek counseling with husband. If he is not willing to change in the marriage, pack your bags or he pack his. Please be advised, just because you are "in love" with this other guy doesn't mean he will continue to treat you like you are "someone". Some men will treat you well because they know they can't have you and it is exciting to have someone else's spouse. Most of the time, the lover will no longer want the relationship if you leave the husband and will find someone else wife to run with. Be careful.
2006-12-21 12:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by stergre1975 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The grass is always greener were you water it. This means you need to find ways to improve your relationship with your husband rather than going for the "other man". Set up a date night with your husband and get him to fall in love with you all over again. Take some initiative to do some fun and different things in your relationship and you will see it pay off.
2006-12-21 12:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by godsgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should of gotten divorced before you found someone else.Aside from that I would make a decision fast and stick to it because if you decide to try and work things out it may end up in you not having either cause most guys won't wait and Husbands don't like wives who cheat as women don't
2006-12-21 12:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by timpossible1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the boyfriend on the side is treating you like something you probably didn't consider, if he's ok with going around with a married woman. I think you should talk to your clergy or a counselor and work out your marriage before seeing other people. That's shameful,
2006-12-21 12:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by Sabine É 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well has your husband always treated you as something was it that way in the beginning? You need to go to counseling. Marriage shouldn't be something taken lightly.
2006-12-21 12:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by jennie r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Warning: when that other guy has you all for himself, there's a 50/50 chance he'll treat you just like your husband does now.
2006-12-21 12:36:28 · answer #10 · answered by Michael R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you choose your husband to marry if this is how he treats you?
2006-12-21 12:58:09 · answer #11 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋