she is nice...but i dont love her at all eversince... all those unhappy years...i just want get out! dont get me wrong..theres no 3rd party involved..
2006-12-21 12:17:29 · 9 answers · asked by Random Guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The only way to do it, is by being honest... Sit her down and let her know that you care about her, but that you don't have the passion that you had before... There is obviously a reason why things fell apart. Let her know what they are. NO matter what she is probably going to be hurt. So, don't keep prolonging it and waisting your time as well as hers.
Good Luck!
2006-12-21 12:37:59 · answer #1 · answered by Torres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure she knows how you feel- like you are thinking of ending the marriage. Then make one more honest try at working it out together. Give it a time frame. Talk to her. Make her feel like she at least is part of the decsion to split or stay together- Do Not tell her over the phone or email or leave a letter!!!!! Do not become involved with someone else. Protect herself esteem and protect her financially. Be honest, but remember the way you treat her now could either make things easier for her or scar her for years and years to come. Good Luck, I hope things work out for the best. I read somewhere that there are no unhappy marriages, just unhappy people in marriages- is she and the marriage the problem or is it you?
2006-12-21 21:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by maisy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make sure the two of you have a lot of quiet time to sit down and talk about this. Unplug the phone, turn off the TV, and sit down to talk. Do not accuse each other of anything-just talk calmly about your feelings.
I don't want to sound rude, but I have yet to see a man leave a marriage without it actually involving another woman.
2006-12-21 20:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are this unhappy, chances are so is she. Why don't the two of you try to work it out. Obviously, you are not that fed up because you can not find a way to bring yourself to tell her it is over. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-21 20:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You skipped a lot. Ever since......? If you do not love her, don't lead her on. That's the worst. If you know you want a divorce, she should know before anyone else. There were vows, you know. Don't be a snake.
2006-12-21 20:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you how you feel but you.. But i can tell you that you can get back the love that you use to have.. You just have to try..It's not easy but it can happen....
It worked for me & now it's better than every..
You married her for some reason, it's worth a shot to try & make it work
GOOD LUCK
2006-12-22 11:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by ahg30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, four words do it..."I Want A Divorce"
2006-12-21 21:26:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very straigtforward. "There's no easy way to say this, so I'm just going to say it...I want a divorce".
2006-12-21 20:40:09 · answer #8 · answered by J D Jr. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and straight forward honesty is the best policy
2006-12-21 23:36:49 · answer #9 · answered by tellthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋