i have a very serious steady relationship with a man for 4 years.I know he really loves me cos although he lives in another city during the week he comes to me as often as he can from 3 to 4 times a week.We live together,he supports me financially,.has opened my own business and always takes me on his trips and holidays.he has even included me in his will!(he doesnt know i know that).Its like were married but not yet.i know for a fact that he sees other girls sometimes for sex and only but if i didnt know it i could never guess cos his feelings only grow strronger for me and getting closer.so i guess not always cheating is bad for the relationship,i think its his personal insecurity and since our relationship isnt affected but is great then i dont care.what do u think?
2006-12-21 11:52:33 · 8 answers · asked by sophie c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
THIS IS VERY CONFUSING THERE IS NOWAY YOU SHOULD PUT UP WITH THIS MAYBE HE CARE FOR YOU IN HIS OWN SELFISH WAY. MAYBE HES ALREADY MARRIED AND YOU DONT KNOW THIS CHEATING IS NOT GOOD IF A PERSON REALLY CARES FOR YOU, ITS HARD TO CHEAT ON THE PERSON LET ALONE BE AWAY FROM THE PERSON YOU LOVE . BECAUSE HE OPEN YOUR OWN BUSINESS AND PUT YOU ON HIS WILL DOESN'T MEAN HE LOVES YOU. MAYBE HES FEELING GUILTY DONT BE DUMB LOOK AT THE REAL THING DONT YOU HAVE ANY SELF ESTEEM. YOUR GOING TO GROW OLD WAITING FOR HIM. 4YRS WITHOUT COMMITMENT I WILL ASK MYSELF WHATS REALLY GOING ON I HAVE A FEELING THERE MORE TO HIM THAT WHAT YOU REALLY KNOW.
2006-12-21 12:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've got blinders on. If you marry this man he will cheat. And how can he "live in another city during the week" and "live together" with you? Can't have it both ways, sweetheart. Sounds to me like he has enough money to buy anything he wants, including you. Continue to see him if you want to, but don't fool yourself about the relationship.
2006-12-21 12:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by nana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very sad to see how much credit you give him for treating other girls like THINGS, you are just as much as a player as he is..so I guess be happy and hopefully none of you will have children!!
2006-12-21 12:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by kittybebe12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you said he lives in another city then you said you guys live together, well besides that if your comfortable with it then don't ask anyone what you should do just do what ever feels best and works for you.good luck.
2006-12-21 11:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this truly did not bother you, you would not be asking this question!
Of course it bothers you, if he sleeps with them, then you sleep with them too (health-wise, that is).
If your relationship is so great, then why does he need to go out with other women?
I think you are lying to yourself and to us.
2006-12-21 12:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by arewethereyet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you so much, why does he go and have sex with other girls? its like you're not good enough for him. it's cool if you think that's okay-- but it sounds a little odd to me.
2006-12-21 12:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bein a pimp i say dat was me!! fo shizzle? dass some funnyass lil shiznit son! well luv ya homey
2006-12-21 12:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea..i think u've found ure soulmte...
n c he really2 cares bout u...
good luck in all u do!
2006-12-21 11:58:24 · answer #8 · answered by evax_ian626 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋