I really love him and he is very nice, so are his parents, and his baby sister. And my parents love him! But I dont wanna get pregnant and i dont know what to do. What do I say to him? Without hurting him.
2006-12-21 11:37:06 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Definition: The age of consent is the age at which an individual can legally say yes to having sexual activity. This may not really be the answer for you tho. If you want to spend your life with this person, you should wait until you have both made that commitment.
See AGE OF CONSENT CHART at link below.
Where it exists, the "three year rule" applies only to people who have reached the AOC, but who have not yet reached the age of majority (the age at which you become an adult who is legally able to enter into binding contracts). In simple terms, the "three year rule" only applies to people who are old enough to consent to sex, but who are not yet considered adults under the law. It is important to note that the "three year rule" does not exist everywhere.
2006-12-21 11:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by Pey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready then talk to him. If he loves you, he will understand. However, if you want to have sex and what is stopping you is fear of pregnancy then there is a solution. Buy condoms and a cream/gel that is a spermicide. It kills sperm so it would prevent you from getting pregnant. You use the cream which they sell at any pharmacy and get your boyfriend to wear a condom that comes from a good brand. Use both because you will be more protected and also free from any STDs (just in case). If you do this and always be responsible then you should be okay.
2006-12-25 08:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by cynical 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST SAY NO! Just because someone is nice and their parents are nice and you like them is not a really great reason alone to have sex with someone. You are young and pregnancy can be a consequence of sex! Sexually transmitted disease is also a consequence if you don't take precautions. Be careful. Consider your birth control options if you do decide to, the pill, the condom, both! What do you have to gain that you don't already have if you decide to go ahead and have sex with this person? Would he stick around if you were to get pregant? I say, seek counseling BEFORE you decide to decide!
2006-12-21 11:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by karlee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you say no to sex theirs nothing wrong with that. If your boyfriend really loves and cares about you he'll understand perfectly. And if he gets mad or hurt then he doesn't really love you. Most of the guys just say " If you really love me you'll do it." But don't fall for that. That's just a lie. Well good luck!
2006-12-21 12:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you'd like to have sex with him get on the pill and have him wear a condom, both methods together 100% effective. Go to planned parenthood they will help you decide any birth control options.
2006-12-21 23:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by badmikey4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since u dont wanna get pregnant i suggest u ask him to use a condom. Or just say ure not ready
2006-12-21 17:33:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you he will wait, don't let him scare you with the old say that if you don't have sex with him he is going to break up with you, or that he is going to get sex with somebody else, or that you don't love him enough, that's bs. Tell him that you are going to talk to your parents about it. And don't worry about hurting him, obviously he doesn't care about hurting you. DON'T LET HIM PUT PRESSURE ON YOU!!!
2006-12-21 18:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by Sarita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you think you are ready to have sex then go for it. But if you do then remember there are always consquences to haveing sex. if you love him and he loves you, and you dont want to have sex then he should wait, and it shouldnt be a problem. And if you do decide to make sure you both get tested for HIV. AND TAKE EVERY PRECAUTION
2006-12-21 15:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by Allie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple you tell him no way until you are married or you are 35 which ever comes first. Then in a sneaky way get your dad to your boy friend his gun collection.
There is an old unwritten rule among guys:
We marry good girls:
We have sex with nice girls:
2006-12-21 11:44:43 · answer #9 · answered by JUAN FRAN$$$ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When i was in hs i had the same problem with my boyfriend. He really wanted to do it on our prom my senior year and i wasn't ready. You must sit him down, one on one and tell him EXACTLY how you feel, if you are not ready, u must tell him this. If he's as great as you say he is, he will understand. How he responds is a key part to your relationship.
2006-12-21 11:42:32 · answer #10 · answered by VintageBarbie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋