Can a couple w an extremely hot sex life make it if they have very little else in common?

Answer 1

It really depends on how the people are out of the bedroom. It's worth looking into, though, because once you have that chemistry, there's already some compatibility there. I personally know a couple who have been married over 10 years that make it because even though they were complete opposites they liked the challenge of each other. They ended up making common ground and they both became better people because of it. I say give it a try, and if nothing else, you'll have fond memories of years gone by for your grandchildren! lol

Answer 2

Is the couple married ? You just say couple. That does not imply married, especially these days. Of course they can make it. If the sex life is in fact really hot for BOTH of them then there has to be some passion and emotions there. They just aren't applying them to other things. The tendency is to be just as hot and passionate when you are fighting also. Maybe you expect things outside of the bedroom to be as good as things inside the bedroom. When you are having sex you are having sex, it's not paying the bills, or taking the kids to soccer practice or many of the other things that may complicate life outside the bed. The fact that you can have good hot sex is a good sign that all you need to do is apply a little of that passion to your relationship.
DO you each have to know everything the other one is doing ?
It's easier to make a relationship work with good hot sex than to make one work where the sex is non-existent or poor because sooner or later one or the other will stray and I believe it's easier to work on the relationship than the sex.
But the bottom line is, you have to have something in common other than the sex unless you just met the other person and don't even know their name. You need to work on those other things you have in common. It's a lot easier to learn to like some music or some movie or some author or sport, if you know you are having mind blowing orgasms in the bedroom. So which is it ? 3 weeks into a relationship you are having a good time everywhere but the bedroom or 3 weeks into a relationship you are going thru the roof in the bedroom and having some difficulties relating to his/her interests ? I've been married for 30 years and let me tell you good hot sex is still a big part of our relationship. and no matter how long you work at it you aren't gonna always like or agree on thing outside the bedroom, once you accept that you aer better off. Men and women tend to like some different things.

Answer 3

No sex is just something for pleasure once that is getting to the norm or boring you have nothing else to talk about or do. Remember in any relationship communication is #1 so if you guys can talk to each other and get to know each other then maybe but just sex no it wont work out there are to many problems if you base your whole relationship on sex. Of course you here of opposites attraction but even there you have some similar things in common or like the same stuff find out what you both like to do you just may like some of the same stuff but if you guys are in the sac all the time when do you get to know each others likes and dislikes. I hope you find happiness with him or someone new god bless and best of luck.

Answer 4

You may have a great sex life now but that will diminish in time and you both may grow and have different preferences (not talking same sex just different styles for lack of a better word) sexually. If that is the only thing in common it won't last. Once the sex wears off the relationship will also. Sorry :(

Answer 5

Actually no. The reason is that physical attraction fades and the more sex a person experiences with the same individual the more it becomes mundane and commonplace. Too much of a good thing is a bad thing. To live on sex is not to live at all. Where is the excitement, the adventure, the mystery, the fun? There is none.

Answer 6

This is the complete honest truth, I have seen couples work that have nothing in common. To me sex shouldn't matter in a relationship,but when you have that amazing spark in bed with someone,it's not something you want to pass up on,because no matter how disfunctional things may be,or how,"uncommon" you are,things can be worked out. Nothing is impossible in this world. You can move on to someone else,but less likely you'll find that spark. I'm not ashamed to admitt it,sex sometimes makes relationships more bareable,but don't ever doubt that you can't make a relationship work based on a few uncommon things. Small,trivial things like your taste in music,colors,are things that should not matter. Differing views on raising children,can be found a compromise,that both can agree to. Varying opinions on politics, as important as they seem,they don't define a persons character like loving,kind,gentle,or amazing in bed,or even having the ability to complete you.

Answer 7

Psychologists would say no, but... I have seen couples with very little in common and terrible sex lives make it for decades on a row! :-O I guess it all turns out to wheter a better, "ideal" situation shows up or not...

Answer 8

Hmmmm, well, when and if the sex wears out, where does that leave you guys? You should have something in common if you want to stay with someone forever. You will need stuff to talk about later on when you're old.

Answer 9

Yes because in between you two getting hot and heavy you are both going to have to get to know each other. I was once in a situation where the sex was great but then the novelty wore off. We were forced to get to know each other and found out that we were compatible in other areas.

Answer 10

Um.. usually not..My ex-wife and I had that same problem.. Sex was the only area we had in common.. Our marriage lasted about 2 years.. The other problems tend to overshadow the great sex and cause you to break up.