2006-12-21 11:13:19 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No I don't think so. i think its pretty sweet of you.
2006-12-21 11:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by Female 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not if you wnat to. The only way it is a problem is if she requires you to wait on her. If you treat he like that, that is the way. If I found someone who treated me like a queen, I would be in heaven!!! Your wife is a lucky woman.
My grandparents have been married 65 years, and my grandpa treats my grandma like a queen, he pampers her and babies her, and he is very happy doing it. She doesn't require or expect it, he just does it, cause he knows that is how he should treat her. She returns the favor, by treating him with respect. He totally pampers her, and that is what he lives for. I watched him once, when the doctors told him that he could not pamper her so much, so she could recover from a stroke, he was lost, he had a really hard time letting her do things for herself. It really is sweet. If we could all find someone like that, life would be grand.
2006-12-21 11:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am not exactly sure what you mean "like a Queen," but as long as she's not too inclined to take advantage of your desire to please her, then there is little risk and much benefit possible.
You know there is a goofy old song that has a chorus, "Make someone happy. Make just one, someone happy. And you will be happy too." 'Way corny, but I think it's right on. I try to make my wife happy just as much as I can, and over the years, it has been good for us both. It is as though I have an emotional bank account. I make a lot of deposits; she trusts me and knows I'll care for her. If I have a bad day, then she's more than willing to be patient with me (and, man, I need a patient woman).
There is an interesting book called "The Way of the Superior Man" that you might check out. It has good insights about differences between male & female psychology, but in general, being really kind to your wife and trying to make her happy will be good for you and her.
Good luck.
2006-12-21 11:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by Amigo van Helical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's always good to show your wife appreciation of what she does for you (hoping that she does things for you). I would question if she expects this treatment and does she treat you the same? You love your wife and any woman would love for their man to show them how much they are loved. You are doing the right thing I suspect. Keep treating her like a queen, it's good for both of you.
2006-12-21 11:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by Andrea D. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you treat your wife like a queen I commend you and ask you to try to encourage your friends to do the same Thank you
2006-12-21 15:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by tellthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think that is great if you treat her like a queen, women love to be pampered and treated so fine. You are to be congratulated
on being a number one husband.
2006-12-21 11:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NEVER!! She should be the Queen of the house. I believe that you should give her as much attention and respect as you possibly can. We are told that we are to "love our wives as ourselves". If you do, then you will see to her every need. I hope that this answers your question. Make sure that you find the time to take her out to a movie and then to eat sometime after the Christmas Holiday. Have a great, great Christmas with her and your family!
Eds
2006-12-21 11:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by Eds 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find myself curious. Do you treat her like a true queen, meaning you give her monetary gifts but no freedom? Or is your definition just showing her how much she means to you by the way you treat her?
2006-12-21 11:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by jzmn2btrfly121 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on the woman. Some woman would feel less independent with being swoon upon, and in that case the only way to rectify the situation is talk. All women no matter what always want to talk and fix the situation. However; if they don't then there is something more going on to the situation.
2006-12-21 11:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by kArMaRiFiC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Don't take it too far as to where she depends on you. She should still be an independent person and you can treat her like a 'queen' to a point......
2006-12-21 11:35:38 · answer #10 · answered by thatonegirl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As a woman I'd say of course it's not wrong. If you've got a good woman treat her like it.
2006-12-21 12:19:27 · answer #11 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋