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This is not a cry for attention. I have way too many problems and they can't be solved. Nothings right. all i need is an unpainful way to kill myself. There is no one i can turn to or turst in this world. as one last fvaor to me please help me

2006-12-21 10:29:47 · 19 answers · asked by ligirl 1 in Health Alternative Medicine

19 answers

I've been there and almost done that; when life hurts so bad that you just want the pain to stop.

There's no such thing as an unpainful way to kill yourself. None.

Someone will feel pain at your doing this. Someone will see a void where you once stood. If nothing else, I'll know and be upset that I couldn't talk you out of this.

Nasty Christmas present for someone you haven't even met, eh?

If there's truly no one you can turn to and no one you can trust, do me a favor first.

Picture your funeral.

Who's there?

Go to those people. If you're set on doing this, you owe them the courtesy of letting them know you're going to tear their hearts out.

If nobody will be there but the priest, tell him.

You are valued by someone, even if that someone isn't you right now.

Please talk to that person. Stick around. It gets better, if you let it. Please email and let me know how you're doing.

Bill

2006-12-21 10:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3 1

You know, I can't be sure if you are for real or not so I'm going to assume you are. I don't know anything about you except that you are alive and a human being, therefore you are one of Gods children. I know from personal experience that until it is your time to go home, you will not succeed in suicide. Don't do anything stupid that may just make you a vegetable and possibly in a lot of pain and aware of your surroundings but unable to communicate with anyone or anything. THINK about that!! Wouldn't that be terrible? I am not a young woman and I have lived a very fulfilling life although I personally lost two of my own children. That is a hard thing for any mother, the worst pain in the world. If I am still here and making it, then I know you can too! I will be praying for you. God Bless You

2006-12-21 11:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by Libralady 1 · 0 0

Aren't you asking the easiest way to committ suicide baby ? Are you sure you want to die ? Aren't you seeking a way where there is no pain and a state where all your hurts and pains are removed ? Aren't you sure that you need only a painless state for yourself but not really a death ?
suicide comes , after all , either from complete despair,brought about through deep frustration, or from insoluble fear, or from the awareness of the meaninglessness of a certain way of living.
when one arrives at a point of despair then there is a tremendous motive involved and it is hard to seperate the emotion from the intelligence. But can you think of being in the realm of intelligence only, without emotion ?
If you could seperate the two things emotion and the intelligence doesn't the question is , does intelligence allow any form of suicide ? obviously not.
But if one has arrived at a point in life where there may have been a certain amount of unintelligent use of the mind which has not yet had any effect on it, one can't go back and re-live one's life.
Then we need to become aware of the destructive nature of the way we live and put an end to it immediately. not at some future date. The act of immediacy infront of danger is an act of sanity, of intelligence: and the postponement as well as the pursuit of pleasure (pleasure that cause pain after its occurance) indicate lack of intellgence. But dont you think you are isolated in thoughts ? Isolation of thought with its self-centered acitvity is a form of suicide.Isolation is suicide itself whatever the motivation for it is.
If you are already isolated either as a group or an individual , You have already committed the suicide it is because the element of the desire to escape is already there- to escape from facing facts , from facing "what is" , and this escape is a form of suicide.

hope is its own iferno. I am sure you live with intelligence suspending undesirable emotions. No one is trying to kill you. world is wide....like you are a sweet baby to many.

2006-12-23 15:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by radarboy 2 · 0 0

I don't think there is one, ending your life will be painfull if not physically then definitely emotionally. I know life can be hard, but please seek medical help, just walk with into a hospital and say i want to kill my self but something brought me here instead, they WILL help you and you WILL be glad they did, it just may take a few days of weeks or month to feel that way. But imagine what you may be doing a year from now, maybe all your dept has been solved, maybe you have fallen in love with someone who thinks the world of you. maybe you'll win a trip and get to experience a new culture? you could miss out on so much by ending it now/ please give life a second chance!

2006-12-21 10:41:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Let's talk about this.

I know from experience since my brother, first husband and my son all killed themselves.

If you have problems, they can be dealt with no matter how big you think they are. You have to solve them one at a time though and some problems you can't deal with alone so ask for help.
There is no reason not to ask for help.

And the deep, hurtful pain you leave your family and friends with is indescribable. It's a pain of losing someone that is not justifable. Your family and friends will question theirselves for years as to why you didn't ask for help, and why they didn't realize that you needed help. Do you really want to hurt that many people that deeply?

2006-12-21 10:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

For Pete's Sake!!!!!!

Do you think that this is going to be the answer to all your problems - really? Don't you know that when you die out of turn (i.e., suicide) you'll never end up with those loved ones who have passed before you or with anyone else you ever want to spend your eternity with.

You still have to answer to the Man upstairs and He will not look lightly on those who give up on the lives which He gives us in the first place.

Get off the pity pot and do something for yourself for once - LIVE and make the things right that you can. Live with the things that you can't and for once and for all get those things out of your life that are making you sooo miserable especially those bad people. STAY AWAY FROM THEM.

Get your act together because you'll not enjoy an eternity peelin taters for some old Goblin (thought I'd throw that in there just in case you thought I was kidding). You won't like HELL. Its not even a nice place to visit.

You can do anything you set your mind to dear don't let the riff raff push you into their own hell you can come out of this shining like a beacon on the night for those less fortunate than you. If your smart enough to get on this internet then your smart enough than say 20% of the people in this entire world!

Show everyone that you can shine brighter than the Star of David given the opportunity I know you have great things in your future you know it so lets not waste any more time --- go out there and do it BABY!@!!I know you can!

Please don't leave us the world is already a bad enough place to be in without all the good people giving up - where would we be then? Don't leave me!!!

............think about it.........and please stay!!!

2006-12-21 10:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by MsEagleTX 3 · 1 2

Please , get professional help to sort out the problems
Probably , you would not believe how many problems
people have.


Of course, justice does not exist ont his earth.
Neither , does anyone know the entire truth.
But , you can fight for yourself and your dignity,
and by this add to humanity , which is
everybody´s task.


Please email me, I have gone through very difficult mments
and am living a very difficult one right now - maybe
an exchange helps .

And - it may seem strange to you right now, but there
fascinating aspects of life, too
Of course it can be absolutely cruel, too.


All the best.

2006-12-21 10:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by rgarlik 2 · 0 0

Im not technically 'against' suicide. I think everyone has a choice with what to do with their own bodies.
BUT -
in all honestly, I also believe all problems are solveable. Maybe not even 'solveable' but they can be manageable. Depression is a chemical imbalance in the brain. There may be reasonable things MAKING you depressed but still, when it reaches the level of suicide, its an actual brain problem. Nothing is wrong with YOU, it just means you need a little balancing.
Email me, I want to know what these problems are you think are not solveable. It may take a different point of view and different person outside of yourself to try to find a solution.
Please feel free to email me, i think talking to someone non judgemental can make you feel better. What can you lose by trying it?

2006-12-21 10:35:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

step one, you need that your problems are not unique to the world..
realize that whatever it is it will pass with time.
Step two, as hard as it may seem you put your trust in and in your self someone...I'm sure that there are people who love you, and want to see you happy
you should go get help..
Hell... do me a favor and email me, we can talk(honestly about this), I could compare notes with you, I've had a hard life too, but im not giving up....tkdtimsta@Yahoo.com
If your still there and you want to talk I'm here tkdtimsta@yahoo.com
I'm checking in once more, I hope that someone out there is helping her.......this is a person in need.
I know that the holidays can be hard on those of us who have recently lost a loved one, or dont have someone to love.....
If your reading this I can assure you that what ever it is you will get throught this. there are a lot of people here who are wanting to talk to you and understand,,
tkdtimsta@yahoo.com

2006-12-21 10:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by bill 1 · 0 1

I wish I could offer you advice to change your mind. My 78 year old father took his life on December 16, 2000.
The grief and guilt put on my family and friends is unbelievable. It almost killed my mother.
Do you love anyone? Do you have faith? Please know there are people out there who really care.

2006-12-21 13:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by CAT 3 · 0 0

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