I like this guy who is in my class, and he knows.
I want to go out with him someday, but he says
he is not a relation-type person and that we should just be friends. I still like him, but how do
I turn that likeness off? Can someone give me
any advice because I don't know what to do.
Serious answers though please.
2006-12-21 09:56:53 · 7 answers · asked by PrettyEyes 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The best thing that you can do right now is to be his friend. If he doesn't meet your needs, then it is time for you to move on. Just be there for him and be the kind of friend that he wants. Who knows? It could escalate into something more; it might not. Don't set yourself up for a downfall if all doesn't go well. Be his friend. That's it. Hope this helps. Good luck.
2006-12-21 10:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i just answered your question about Christians and say that it since it seems you are high school and knowing high school boys, having been one, that you have afull life ahead of you and what seems like you want now may not be what you want in five years. give it time God has plan for you. I don't presume toknow what it is but if you are silent and listen, prayer and meditation, all will be revealed. You have a full life ahead of you. think of this.
At 16 one year is 1/16th of your life while at 32 one year is 1/32. sex takes up a very small portion of your life unless you become addicted. take your time ther is no reason to rush
you cant turn the attraction off but you do other things to take your mind off it. turn your focus on other things. i wish you great things in life.
God bless you and keep you
Love in Christ
2006-12-23 14:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by wayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be his friend, then! You'll get plenty of opportunities to turn the charm on when you've been hanging out with him as a friend for a bit -give him time to let his guards down and then have your way!
2006-12-21 18:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by Nini 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to try to figure out a way to not sit by him without it being obvious of you moving. Go out and meet new guys and just hang out with them try not to think about him if his number is in your phone delete it so you wont be tempted to call him. You need to get over him before you can be friends. I hate to break it to you but he doesn't like you the same way you do. "I am not a relation-type person" is a lame excuse for him to get out of going any further with you. Still be nice to him smile say hi but try to avoid him without being obvious until you are over him.
2006-12-21 18:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by #1techfan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kay the best way to turn his head to look in you way is make him think you don't care men are funnie,they never want something until it is gone so go on with your life live it happy and if it is ment to be he will come around and some men are not ready to be in a full time relationship never .lol
2006-12-21 18:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by mary m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look i've been in your shoes. not to long ago. all i can tell you is that it will take some time to get over him, but you will someday. and a little advise stay friends with him who knows someday it could become something more.
2006-12-21 18:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by topanga 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i had the same problem. but i finally got over him when my friend (who is a boy) asked the boy out for me without knowing and he said no. and now he doesnt even talk to me. so i would suggest not ask him out if he just wants to be friends. and get over him!
2006-12-21 18:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by Julie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋