i just got rejected from a fashion show at my school and everyone that came to the audition said that they might have made a mistake because they said i did really well. I want to come and ask the judge about what i did wrong, but im feeling low doing this.. so is it the right thing for me to do? is it okay?
2006-12-21 09:52:03 · 22 answers · asked by billy 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Of course! It shows your dedication and determination to want to do better.
2006-12-21 09:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What do you care? You already lost. You have nothing to lose.
Ask him or her. If the judge is condescending, just remember that you don't care and say an expression like "don't have a cow man!" or "whatever" etc. Then act like the whole situation is stupid and below you. If any one asks, simply say that it was rigged or something, they were prejudice against you because something or another. Then state that you just went for kicks and giggles and the hole thing was just a silly joke anyways. Say its just small time and a waste of your time and maybe fib a little and say you've been to peewee shows better than that.
I suppose if you can't get over it you can always find the judges' car in the parking lot and modify the paint finish or something.
2006-12-21 10:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by -------- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave well enough along. There is no need in hurting your feelings anymore than they have been hurt.
Just think about this situation. Look at the contestants on American Idol. They think that they did a good job until Simon tears them a new hole., and then they walk away feeling worse than when they started.
Sometimes people are looking for certain qualities, and this may not have been personal. Maybe someone did better than you. It is never a crime to ask why?
But why continue the ill feelings, and regret any further. Just do better next time.
2006-12-21 09:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by Meko 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course go and ask. Rejection is never easy but by asking you will find out if there is any area you could improve on. Never feel low for asking someone's help or opinion. Self esteem is a great thing. Good Luck
2006-12-21 09:57:24 · answer #4 · answered by Lynda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The judges might not entertain you, but I think you should politely try to ask them for the interest of self improvement. In this way they may tell you the reason/s for the rejection.
Best of luck and Merry Christmas.
2006-12-21 09:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by JP E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with seeking out constructuctive criticism if you are serious and passionate about what you do...Ask the judges, " How could I improve on what I did ?"
2006-12-21 09:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by j c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. It will let you know so you can improve it. Just don't try to come off as whiny or arrogant. Show honest humility and want dor bettering yourself and all should be well.
2006-12-21 19:13:19 · answer #7 · answered by Nyx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go up to the judge and ask them what you did wrong. What will you lose all you will do is gain something.
2006-12-21 09:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a right to ask the judge why she made the decision. It is not inappropriate, in my opinion.
2006-12-21 09:54:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection is a major part of modelling, but since its school, why not ask?!
2006-12-21 09:55:00 · answer #10 · answered by Chloe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋