im not sure where she gets what should i do?
2006-12-21 09:42:06 · 9 answers · asked by latte_tina 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Hmm... Sounds to me like you have a healthy daughter who is learning new stuff about her body! She definitely is satisfying herself and there be NO shame in that what so ever! It is very important that you give her the space that she is allowed as a human being. If you give her the impression that what she is doing is bad, you may put scars her soul, that will stay there for the rest of her life! Children a being sexual at a very early age, this you have to accept. As long as she i being private about this, you must accept it, dont make a big deal out of something that is so natural! If she was to satisfy her self in the living room or some place else that is inappropriate, then you must tell her, that there are certain rules when you are not alone. But dont ever make her feel uncomfortable about her sexuality! This is VERY important!
Lene.
2006-12-21 09:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That time is here when kids are curious about their bodies. I suggest you make a brief comment when you are both alone to let her know if there is anything she wants to talk to you about sex or regarding her body, she can come to you anytime. Then you make sure not to be shocked by anything she asks or says. It is your obligation to be honest and upfront with her. Provide her with the best info you can.
In the mean time, masturbation is perfectly normal for teens. Better that than getting pregnant. Therefore, allow her to do so in private
2006-12-21 09:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by S H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that I would say any thing to her about being able to here her. I would how ever (if you haven't started yet)start talking to her about sex. Try and make sure she gets her info from you. I'm sure at 12 some of her friends are already having sex. Try and make sure that you are the one she is coming to when she has questions. The studies show that the kids that parents are talking to about sex are less likely to have sex at such a young age.
2006-12-21 09:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by mrs.mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you put the water on your vagina? You came to that conclusion quick by just hearing it. Maybe she got the idea from you. ANYWAYS, she is obviously getting sexually inquisitive. All you can do now is guide her and advise her on real life. Don't sugar coat things she'll resent it later.
Best of luck and I hope you can teach her good decision making when it comes to sex.
2006-12-21 09:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by drifting_saint 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's learning about her body.. let her have this time to be alone and explore it herself... she's just masterbating with the warm water and it feels good for her... don't do anything about it.. let her do it, i mean it's either listen to a little moaning now or she could make u a grandparent much too soon
2006-12-21 11:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by ypsilady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably has a problem with yur sex life but its not descretely about it its prob a conversation she caught and is not happy with you she possibly also had a memory that wasnt exactly hers reffering to a bad incident and could have been when she was real real young
2006-12-21 09:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
But her a big rubber dick with two heads incase shes putting water on her butt too
2006-12-21 10:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by jackjvb69 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't worry this kind of masturbation.
2006-12-21 10:41:51 · answer #8 · answered by Komsat/sad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she thinks she can drink that way.
2006-12-21 11:30:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋