1997 i fall in lovewith a boy i never tell him that i love him but he knew that. even i got signal from him that he also love me and i fall down more and more in his love after 3 yeras i knew that he never loved me he loves some other girl. my heart broken . again 4-5 years pass now 2006 i'm married women with other guy. i love him so much.but i tried to forget my first love but i couldn't. my husband knows everything about him.
i can't forget him.i feel again ssame feelings for him which i used to feel for him.i want to forget him what should i do pl tell me??
rcently one of my friend tell me that he loves me now. but after that he got married. but i feel love for him. what should i do ???
2006-12-21 09:35:54 · 10 answers · asked by gunarp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be glad you felt that kind of love and put it aside as a treasure to remember. Build your love with your husband, but do not talk with him about your other loves. Be faithful, be patient, work to make your marriage the best it can be for both of you!
2006-12-21 09:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have got married and it is better to be in love with your hubby than live in a dream world about your first love who has also got married. Tell yourself frequently that you are lucky to be married to a guy who accepts you though he knows about your first love. In course of time you can forget the first guy if you make it a point to divert your mind instead of thinking of him constantly.Do the right thing and your heart will feel light and happy instead of being heavy with a sense of guilt. Wishing you a happy married life.
2006-12-21 19:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by daya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ido understand that ur love was first love n its been impossible for u to let him out of ur thoughts but do u understand the fact that now ur marrried and ur husband loves u inspite of he knowing that u still love the other man....tell me wud u accept if ur husband wud have loved another woman....?? NO RIGHT....!!! ur blesssed with an understanding husband and now ur old love is marrried tooo.....now the only relationship u too can have is that of an extra marital afffair but do u think ur doing justice to the one who trusted u .....
read this carefully i hope u will have an answer:
what means a lot....
1) being hurt by someone u trusted a lot OR
2) being trusted by someone u have hurted a lot...
so decide u want to hurt or keeep someone's trust
2006-12-25 09:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by sameer_billu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is harsh but....you need to grow up fast.
You're in love with an imaginary person because the person you think you love is not the same person after 10 years.
You're different and he's different.
You're going to screw up your life for a youthful first love.
Again....grow up and stop being foolish.
2006-12-21 18:20:52 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were meant to be then you two would be together. You are married and hopefully somewhat happily. Cherish the nice memories, but move on with your life.
2006-12-21 18:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know the feeling iam in love with some one esle so dont let the one you love go like i did. so tell him you love him how know it miht work out with you 2. you are never going to for get him i know i never did and i sitll love him but i married to. i have not seen him for a long long time but i sitll love him. so i hope that you will tell the one you love that you love him dont let him go.your not going to be happen if you dont know if he loves you are not so hpoe you tell him. i hope it works out for you and him
2006-12-21 17:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you see your family issues more then your past issues . you are spending your quality time thinking about a person who was not even in your life and spoiling your future by neglectingthe one who is in your life . god bless you
2006-12-21 22:29:38 · answer #7 · answered by gunchu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey past is past...u have to forget it...the wounds which the time is healing...y are u fiddling with it...ur husband is an amazing man...he knows all about ur past and still loves u for wat u are....is that not wat everyone wants??? u are being selfish by asking for more...u should be consented with wat God has given u...a loving husband and a friend....do not live in the past..and spoil the present
2006-12-24 01:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by suni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love your hus more and more
2006-12-21 20:04:17 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you think right
2006-12-21 19:08:15 · answer #10 · answered by Kevin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋