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Question

i am a 13 yr old girl n i luv lookin at other girls privates but i like boys aswell is this normal am i a lezzo

Answer 1

Yes, it is normal- and being lesbian is not abnormal
Define what you mean by privates (aka bra area or panty area)...
First off, what is a "lezzo". The correct term is lesbian or homosexual, and the way that you say it makes it seem derogatory- there is nothing wrong or abnormal with being one.
When you say you love looking at them- do you get a sexual pleaure from looking at them (aka are you turned on). If you do, you might be lesbian, bisexual, or any of the grey area's inbetween. But since you say you like guys, you are not lesbian- you would be bisexual or heterosexual. Or you may just be curious.
I am a 13 yr old girl, and I check out (for lack of a better word)girls boobs- not because I am attracted to girls, which I am not, but because I compare my own chest to theirs. It's the same thing as if you have braces, or feel self-concious about your teeth- you pay attention to other people's teeth and compare your own to them.
However, if you are looking at their privates and they notice, they may not appreciate it
The correct(politically and scientifically) terminology:
homosexual- can apply to male and females who are sexually attracted to other people of the same gender- comes from "homo" which means same in greek
heterosexual- can apply to male and females who are sexually attracted to other people of different gender- comes from "hetero" which means different in greek
bisexual- can apply to male and females who are attracted sexually to both genders- comes from 'bi" which means two
pansexual- can apply to male and females- sexuality that is not limited (aka you can like guys, girls, hermaphrodites(shmen), and basically anything else)
It is not acceptable to use other terminage such as "dyke" or "fag", etc... It depends on the society that you are in- gay and lesbian and bi may or may not be acceptable
As you grow older and become more aware of your sexuality, you will most likely know more about what you are. However, if your family or friends are critical of non-heterosexuals, then perhaps it is better that you keep it to yourself.
good luck

Answer 2

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Answer 3

You are not a lesbian--if you like both genders then you would be bi-sexual and that is normal for many people. You are who you are and it's good that you are open about it (at least on here). Hiding it can just be frustrating. There is nothing wrong with people who are bisexual or gay. It's just who you are!!

Answer 4

it could be a number of reasons, u could just become open minded, or bisexual. i was like that for a while when i was younger. but im pretty much heterosexual now. but im still open minded lol. or u could just be curious, maybe selfconscouisly comparing and all. just dont worry about it

Answer 5

you may be bi or just curious
you dont have to decide what you are right now..instead give it time and when you are older you will know exactly what you are.

Answer 6

You are just curious because you are going thruogh puberty and i don't think you are bi.

Answer 7

I think your bi
You like both girls and guys
But I don't know

Answer 8

dont worry im the same way and my doc says its perfectly normal

Answer 9

well, your what id call omnisexual (liking of boys and girls) but thats normal so dont worry about it

Answer 10

Your either bi or just curious.Do you like girls? or do you just like looking at girls privates??