due to circumstances that neither of you could fix and would reencounter after 5 yrs still have the same strong love but you are now married thinking that you would never find or see this person again what would you do specially if this person told you to leave evrithing to start over would you leave your current partner (this person has being good to you marriege is good) this happened to a friend of mine .
2006-12-21 09:23:20 · 10 answers · asked by EPTX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some people think that the grass is always greener on the other side.So if that person is looking over the fence tell them not to cross over it yet.Your friend needs to count their blessings.They have a good spouse,what more could you ask for?"The love of your life" is just an illusion.Come down to reality and enjoy your spouse because life is too short.
2006-12-21 10:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorcing your spouse is a very final and obviously should not be done on a whim. Sometimes fond memories of a former lover should stay in the past. If two people are absolutely sure that they were meant to be then they have an obligation to first divorce their current partner.
Another option, which is not so great, but may be a little less harsh and final is to have a discreet affair and see if indeed both of then still feel deeply that they should be together, then take the final plunge.
Sounds a real mess. hope this helps
Good Luck
2006-12-21 09:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happen to me first there was a reason you two broke up secondly your married to someone else now you should have gotten over them by now but even if you haven,t and I would hope you love the woman you married how could you even allow your self to con ceder leaving your wife just remember what goes around comes around grow up and love your wife
2006-12-21 10:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If there were no children involved I would go back to the love of my life, and explain to my significant other I want to be fair so he could start over. If there are children I would stay were I am.
2006-12-21 09:29:18 · answer #4 · answered by sweetladytease 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not leave my husband. The commitment that is made to the marriage is made inspite of any other feelings you may have for anyone else. This commitment has to be honored becasue it is the right thing to do.
2006-12-21 09:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by Jewells 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you find that your present partner cares for you more and sincerely, then there is no need for you to go back to your past one, life is to go on and not look back.
2006-12-21 09:48:05 · answer #6 · answered by Redjewel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, that would depend on how my marriage was going. I wouldn't get out of a good marriage just for that.
2006-12-21 09:37:16 · answer #7 · answered by RamontheGreat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some things are best to stay where you left them
2006-12-21 10:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by nodumgys 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to think it all out...
2006-12-21 09:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what?your question makes no sense...
2006-12-21 09:33:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋