2006-12-21 09:20:31 · 22 answers · asked by youngeugene25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes. Simple enough?
2006-12-21 09:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by Liligirl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In general...Yes. That's the short answer.
The long answer goes into subjects such as this: What kind of flirting? What sort of partying? And Strip clubs are generally not acceptable unless you go with your SPOUSE or you are at a friends bachelor party and therefore making it an occasional thing.
2006-12-21 17:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to do the judgement thing and say these things you enjoy are wrong. I will say they are a sure fire way to invite a s--t load of conflict and bad situations in your life. Certainly you have to consider your spouse and family (if you have children). The social outlets you mention are not the best use of time toward building a healthy family life. Sounds like you're a pretty outgoing person, so maybe consider another social outlet that involves you and your mate spending quality time together.
It sounds like you do have concern for your spouse or you not be questioning whether your behavior is right or wrong.... Good Luck and HAPPY and SAFE HOLIDAYS.
2006-12-21 17:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by wonderful1 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm really if you need to ask, I would have to say you already know the answer... If you still want to hang out with single friends and attend strip clubs then single is what you need to be. Sounds to me like your single with marriage benefits.
2006-12-21 18:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by Honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So wrong once in a while u can hang with the boys no problem with that ,but u have to dry the line somewhere ,just think your wife could be doing the same thing u are ....
2006-12-21 17:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong if your wife does not object to it, if she does find something else to do. Unless you did these things before marriage and she was made aware that you would not change. If she wants you to stop then find someone who does not have a problem with it, so your wife can make a decision on her future.
2006-12-21 17:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by sweetladytease 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is only wrong if you do it behind her back or do it behind her back and you get caught.
I don't know why all of these kids in here think there boy friends and husband aren't doing the same. I would rather know then not know.
For women they often find it easy to split hairs over this when they are at a bacholorette party and a male stripper is bull dancing in their laps. I personally would rather know what and where her fun is gonna be then not know at all.
2006-12-21 17:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I can only speak for myself as I do not know how your wife views your behavior but I would be very angry if my man did this to me. But all women are different some do not mind. How would you feel if it was the other way around and your wife behaved the way you are? Treat others as you would want to be treated.
2006-12-21 17:29:46 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Crickett 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's wrong when you start behaving in a way that shows disrespect for your relationship with your wife. an easy way to gage it is stop and think if my wife were here and saw me behaving this way would she be upset? if the answer is yes then you are going too far and need to remove yourself from the situation.
2006-12-21 17:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by frsttmshy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it makes your spouse unhappy, it is. You're supposed to care about your spouse more than any other person on earth. How does your spouse feel about your flirting and partying?
Would you be happy if your spouse treated you the way you are treating him/her?
2006-12-21 17:33:59 · answer #10 · answered by Karin C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it s wrong. Would you approve your wife do the same? Flirt and fantacise about other men?
2006-12-21 17:23:58 · answer #11 · answered by Someday 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋