Is there a way to stop erections? I am 19 and believe in celibacy before marriage, so me and my gf haven't done anything like that yet. But whenever we kiss a lot, I get one :( I don't want her to notice because she might get the wrong idea...and no, there is not something I want to do with/to her. I don't want to have to worry about getting one in public. Any advice? Or is this normal?
2006-12-21 09:08:53 · 11 answers · asked by Invisibleman 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I don't think there is anyway to stop erections. My bf gets them all the time, especially when he's with me but I don't think you can do anything about them without causing harm to yourself. They are completely normal.... and I'm sure she wouldnt mind.
2006-12-21 09:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by camm300 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-16 00:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by Lori 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nice that you've chosen to not have sex before marriage, but to expect to not have erections before marriage is a bit ridiculous. It's completely natural to be turned on by your own girlfriend. In fact, if I were in her shoes, I'd be a little offended if some heavy making out didn't get him all riled up. If she respected you as a man, she'd also realize that you can't be expected to not have erections- you're human!
2006-12-21 13:47:09 · answer #3 · answered by Ashlee S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's so sweet of you to hold out until marriage. Most guys would be pressuring their girlfriend's into sex, and you don't want your gf to get the wrong idea about it. You should be honest about it. Tell her about what is going on when you two kiss, so she won't be a l a r m e d.
2006-12-21 09:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal man...your body reacts to the stimulation of kissing even though you're not thinking of "laying down the pipe". If she ever does notice, be open about it...just say "Baby, I'm willing to rise to the occastion for you", making her laugh might break a lil tension and make that wait till marriage a lil easier.
Good luck...and props for holding out bro.
2006-12-21 09:14:09 · answer #5 · answered by drifting_saint 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really stop worrying about this -- it's perfectly normal and, what's more, it's completely healthy behavior. There's no reason to be ashamed, and your girlfriend will not get "the wrong idea" if you've actually talked to her about your wish to remain celibate until marriage. Don't obsess about this -- THAT's the part that isn't healthy!
2006-12-21 09:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by Meg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. Accept the fact that your body is following it's genetic programming to prepare for procreation.
2006-12-21 10:43:36 · answer #7 · answered by Jerry Hayes 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is the kind of young boy. Don't worry later on you won't have any chance like this anymore when you are active in sex.
2006-12-21 10:55:25 · answer #8 · answered by Komsat/sad 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell he that it i an autonomic reaction and you cannot help it.
Tell her that sex does not mean love either.
A hard penis does not mean you want sex with her either. A young man's body does some pretty strange things at times and that you can't help it.
2006-12-21 09:31:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
How old r u? what wrong idea u wouldn't want her to get ..
2006-12-21 09:13:32 · answer #10 · answered by Whatever299 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋