2006-12-21 08:52:15 · 4 answers · asked by Heather 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You've just got to say it. Honestly, getting the concept out there is the biggest hurdle. After that, it's all about letting people get used to the idea, talking, discussing, learning, researching, and just being okay with it.
You can just blurt it out, you can go with a casual slip in conversation about a cute guy or girl (whichever they don't think you like), you can do tons of research, get all sorts of materials ready and sit them down like you're about to say you have cancer. It's a stylistic choice, and it's all up to you. You know your dad best, after all, and what he'll be able to handle.
Good luck.
2006-12-23 12:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot has to do with your age..... If you are still living at home, you may have to feel out the situation before you come out to him. Not all parents take this news well and you don't want to be tossed out by parents who don't understand.
If you can wait till you're on your own, it's safer for you. Do you have any adults in your life who will back you up when it's time to tell your dad? contact pflag.org - it's a wonderfullly supportive groups originally set up for families and friends of the lgbt community. They can help you find a way to tell him and give him the support he may need. Hugs, Reme
2006-12-25 15:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don´t know your age, but sexual orientation is private why would he wants to know? do you feel guilt not saying or explaining to him??
If you are mature enough you can handle it, whats private remains private, if you want help talk to a friend or a therapist.
2006-12-23 20:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by frankomty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does not need to know
2006-12-22 06:43:09 · answer #4 · answered by revolution 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋