And I love him dearly he's the best husband man any women can have I tell him all the time but we are just having hard times on a mans point how do I get him to relize that he is the only man for me.
2006-12-21 08:50:02 · 17 answers · asked by sylvia g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think u and me are going through the same thing. just stick it out and never stop trying. we are going to couples counseling starting the beginning of the year and we realize that its not a bad thing to admit you have problems. it's bad to not admit it and then end up losing each other. we love each other but we need a better way of showing each other, if you can just keep telling yourself you WANT it to work you guys will find a way... good luck and NEVER STOP TRYING :)
2006-12-21 08:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by Chrissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would really suggest the book The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. I dont normally read books like that, but It is the best book to teach you how to communicate love that I have ever read. Even if you don't like to read, try it out it will help you with exactly what you are talking about. Every person says I love you in a different way and your husband might say it (and receive it) differently than you do.
2006-12-21 16:54:50 · answer #2 · answered by livewithoutfear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a mans point of view maybe hes just tired of you already, two years is a long time, enjoy the time you have spent together and brace yourself for the break up.
2006-12-21 16:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by mrfoxhorn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of men have very low self esteem so this is not unusual. You just have to tell him how much he means to you and show him by giving him the kind of attention that he wants or needs
2006-12-21 16:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by jewel32879 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two in a relationship. You should not be the only one making all the loving talk and supporting him. He sounds like a jerk.
2006-12-21 16:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by righteousrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are from Mars, women are from Venus. He's supposed to be chasing YOU. Never quit courting.
2006-12-21 16:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually guys who are insecure about their wife messing around for no reason are the ones doing the messing around themselves
2006-12-21 16:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by ksmpmjoll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Again: BLOW.JOBS! Then, more BLOW.JOBS. Keep 'em comin'! Remember: men are simple creatures. Smoke our ***** every once in a while, don't critcize us too much and we're putty in your hands... well, acutally, mouths.
2006-12-21 16:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by rustyreacharound 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep showing him your love, I think that is my answer. YOu kinda talk in riddles!
2006-12-21 16:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by Bekka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on vacation - u probably need more time together - kids can do that to - communication is key
2006-12-21 16:53:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋