2006-12-21 08:17:14 · 19 answers · asked by Lily202 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
and the fathers is a hot singer
2006-12-21 08:30:20 · update #1
have her tell her parents first. even though she dont want to. and make her stop everything she was doin before she was prenant. no soda or nothin . she needs to prepare her self for no freedom and make sure she gets to all her appointments and that she stays in school til the very end ok.
2006-12-21 08:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by La'Tasha Marie Dat B otch 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it is a very tough call. I don't suspect her parents will be pleased however.....I don't encourage abortion at all. I had friends that had them when I was a teenager and when they became adults and were ready to have children, they really went through some guilt and other emotional struggles.
I think that 15 is way too young to have and keep a baby. The mother will probably be limited and may never rise to her potential and/or able to provide a life that the child deserves.
I would encourage her to talk to her parents and have them help her work through an organization that will help her place the child up for adoption. As hard as it will be, it will be the best thing for the child. There are so many people who want to have babies but can't and this baby could be a blessing to someone else.
Above all, be a friend to her, because regardless of the decision that she and her family make, this will be a very tough time for her.
2006-12-21 08:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by favrd1 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This can be the scariest thing to go through and watch a friend go through I have been there only at 17 so we had a couple years on you. If it is an option she would tell her parents as quick as possible they can be there and they know what they are talking about. She has the options of aborting, adoption, or keeping it. It is very very hard to imagine a 15 year old keeping it and becoming a productive citizen though it does happen. Many kids this age want to be thinking about college and a career and with a child it is so difficult unless her parents are understanding and very helpful even then though her life will be like nothing she knows it to be like now. Just be there for her and let her tell you everything she wants to say and let her figure it out because it is her life and I wish you the VERY best of luck
2006-12-21 08:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by Annabelle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'll be 15 in 4 months and I could not imagine having a child. First off I hate to say this, but she should have used protection or not have had sex. She should definitly talk to her parents or some adult that she trusts and that will help her. She could get an abortion, but if she doesn't agree with abortion she could raise the child which would make her have to grow up very quickly and it would be very difficult, or she could give it up for adoption. Good luck and I hope everything turns out okay for her
2006-12-21 08:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by drms92 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My cousin got pregnant when she was 14, she had the baby a month before she turned 15. She lives with the babys father and his family. Hers pretty much disowned her. She got a work permit and works at mcdonalds 4 nights a week to buy diapers, the babys grandma told her she didn't need to work that she should just concentrate on school but she said that Brian is her son and she wants to provide for him as bet she can. She works, gets B's and C's at school and spends her every waking moment living for her son. I have never been so proud of anyone in my life. If your friend is willing to do what needs to be done for her child, give up her own life for her baby, then i say she should have it and do the best she can. If she dosent have anyone to help her and her parents do something bogus like throw her out, there are places for teenage mothers that will help her before and after she has the baby. If she lives in Illinois have her call "Beneth His Wings" it is a shelter for unwed mothers. They are awsome. Tell her i said good luck and God Bless.
2006-12-21 08:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by rose_calhoun23 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go to your local health department or Planned Parenthood. That way she can explore all her options...I'm not for PERSONALLY for abortion because I don't believe that some (innocent) other person should have to pay (with their life) for your mistakes, but I can definitely understand why a baby at 15 would be difficult to care for, what with school and minimum wage jobs, but it isn't my decision to make anyway. It's hers, so the best thing to do would be for her to discuss this with a professional health care provider so she doesn't just freak out and make a mistake, one way or another. Basically, her options are to have an abortion (and get on some birth control so she doesn't wind up in the same situation), put the kid up for adoption (lots of people want to have kids but can't), or raise the baby herself. She just has to decide what's right for her.
Good luck, and tell her not to worry too much...it's a diffucult situation, but she will make it.
2006-12-21 08:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by grayhare 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was 18 when I had my first child. That was scarey enough, I couldn't imagine 15. But she really needs to talk to her parents and the boys parents about this. Hopefully they will be as understand as mine. And will accept it, and allow her to have this baby. First thing is to not quit school and go to college. But have the baby. U screwed up not the baby!!
2006-12-21 08:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by zackaryaha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adoption
2006-12-21 08:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by Chloe 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
DONT ABORT just have the baby then if she don't want it she can put it up for adoption and she need to get on some type of birth control
2006-12-21 08:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off, she should relize she is an ***! What a waste! I guess next you'll be telling us she is into drugs and drinking. She needs to go into an institution for a few years, there she can grow up and not become what she is already on her way to. Get Help! Mental Help!
So now she is probably going to kill it OR put it through a screwwed up life... The *** for the father should be shot! Today!!
She should be put in jail for the next twenty years and forced to raise the child right!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-21 08:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by Myspace/UltraFMonline 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋