if your better half says they are breaking up with you because of their child do they still love you?

Answer 1

nope, its just an excuse, but they are sincere in that they don't want to spend time with you anymore. move on and find someone with less baggage next time.

Answer 2

I'm going to take a stab at this and I may be misunderstanding your question...but this is what I think. I am assuming that you are saying that your better half has a child and the child for some reason isn't pleased to have you around. If this is the case, no this does not mean that they are breaking up with you because they do not love you. Do you have a relationship with the child? Does the child like you? If the child is old enough to talk perhaps you can talk to your other half. Maybe the child has said something. Talk it out and get to the root of the problem. Good luck to you and I wish that I could help.

Answer 3

I am a mother and I my kids will always come first no matter what. They come before my husband and anyone.. Just because he said he needed space it does not mean he does not love you. You have to be a parent to understand the love between your partner and the love between your kids.... You need to get to the root of the problem and understand that you cannot compete with a childs love.. A parent knows if the partner is getting along with their child or not.. maybe you want more of the attention instead of understanding that there is a difference... maybe he is using it as an excuse.. but the bottom line is that you need to allow some space..

Answer 4

Oh yeah, like that is really enough information for us to make a valid comment on. What is wrong with the child that is so unbearable to the SO? People can be deeply in love, yet realize that the relationship is never going to work. Maybe your SO disagrees with how you are raising your child, so they just can't stand to be a part of it. Maybe you are trying to force the SO be a parent and they do not want to be. All of those things could mean they can't stand the relationship, but they still love you.

Answer 5

could it be your attitude toward the child, do u have resentment toward the child? because of the attention the child gets. change how u view the child, and maybe she will change how she sees u. Worth a chance, divorce just isn't worth it, yes she may still love u for now, but she feels your actions toward the kid are unfair, a woman will always love her child, and see it as though u are picking on the child. even if the child has behavior problems, u must find a way to meet her and compromise with her. children will always come first before spouses.

Answer 6

It's hard to say - what is meant by "because of the child". The two don't get along? parenting differences? There's not enough info in the question to specify.

My husband said that initially then it turned out there was someone else. Several months later we are back on the right track. But each situation is different. Is that the only reason given for leaving?

Answer 7

Sounds like they are using the child as an excuse. Maybe they just want away from you because they have fallen for someone else or because their kid doesn't like you. Best bet is to ask the source, meaning your better half.

Answer 8

Chances are they do love you BUT maybe there are things the both of you should sit down and talk about. Maybe "the child" is really the issue, but maybe it's a combination of things as well.

Answer 9

it depends I went through this a while ago. It could be an excuse to get out of the relationship or they can't deal with you and the child

Answer 10

No or they would make an effort to maintain a home for the child.

Answer 11

No. Listen to yourself. You sound silly and stupid. Nobody breaks up with you because they are in love with you. Get that through your head. It's all sweet talk. He's just telling you what you want to hear.