How do you deal with a # that is not yours that is on your family plan bill? The calls were at odd times of the day.When he went to the store or while I was sleep. I confronted him and he kept saying it was nothing until I went off.He said "it was work related/ relationship issues".Then he said later that day that he told the girl that " my wife" doesn't want me calling you. My thing is he didn't have to say the my wife part if it was truly coming from his heart. I haven't worn my wedding rings since Oct.I reminded him that he needed to get his ring checked. He told me when I put mine back on, he would go. I took them off to show him that not wearing your ring doesn't make you"married" it's how you act whether or not you have them on. People should know for a fact that you are taken. How should I handle this issue.
2006-12-21 08:07:02 · 14 answers · asked by 4babygirls 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
P.S. I GOT PREGNANT 1 1/2 AFTER I GOT MARRIED. AND WE ARE IN OUR 30'S GOING ON 10YRS.
2006-12-21 08:22:15 · update #1
Girlfriend sounds like your little doggie is playing out of his own yard.
2006-12-21 08:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
About $100
2016-05-23 06:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you guys need to get some marriage counselling.
These are not games to be played in a committed relationship and he doesn't seem to understand the meaning of marriage. Perhaps the counselor will help him define it.
You're right, the ring does not make the marriage, but it is a symbol of the committment. May I suggest that you put your rings back on and make an appointment.
Best wishes.
2006-12-21 08:14:28 · answer #3 · answered by tantiemeg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys must be pretty young to be playing these games with each other. Boy there sure is alot of trust in this relationship. Not wearing rings, lying about phone calls. Why did you guys get married in the first place, let me guess, he got you pregnant. I don't see a marriage here.
2006-12-21 08:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by javelin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you guys have more issues than the phone call. I would sit down and have a heart to heart and make sure the both of you are still willing to put 100% in the relationship
2006-12-21 08:10:52 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly B 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You know what it was..You know in your heart that he is either in the beginning stages of cheating or from you checking up on him, maybe he does this all the time.....Put two and two together...When you're not in his presence and going to the store, he is calling her...Girlfriend, wake up..He is sliding all up in that and he's calling her because he must miss her and wants to talk to her before he goes to bed....
Make a decision....get to the bottom of it and call that trick or talk to your hubby and not yell and discuss what is going on and if he gets defensive, he is cheating.....Then you make a decision as to what you want to do....
2006-12-21 09:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like hes playing you and her. Once a cheater always a cheater no matter what he says. Be careful and if you think he's sleeping around go get yourself checked b/c you never know what he may have.
2006-12-21 08:15:44 · answer #7 · answered by colee97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are handling it just fine. Maybe call the number and let her know that she needs to disappear.
2006-12-21 08:11:11 · answer #8 · answered by PDH 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can play that game too. See if he gets upset if you get a boyfriend. Ouch! You don't need a jerk like that.
2006-12-21 08:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by righteousrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need 2 confront him
2006-12-21 08:09:53 · answer #10 · answered by Bea bea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋