true, men cant help themselves. we all look
2006-12-21 08:07:50
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm not in a relationship at the moment. But when I am, I'm usually a one-women-man. I strayed once (out of many relationships) but things were on the slide anyway.
Men are instinctively orientated to spread their seed as much as possible. But we are no longer mere animals and need not always follow instinct, that is now the preserve of the psychopath alone.
The so-called "sex addict" is complete nonsense. It is just media hype like the nymphomaniac was in the 60s and 70s. There is certainly nothing wrong with men wanting a lot of sex. That is healthy. But guys who blame "a condition" or "addiction" for what is selfish, immature and irresponsible behaviour are cowards who won't face the truth of their own emotional weakness.
Generally men can make mistakes and quite often simply do not realise how powerfully damaging betrayal can be. Unless of course it happens to them and then all hell can break loose.
The idea that "All men can't help themselves" is I think, unfair to that sizable chunk of men who have always been loyal to lovers, friends and family.
PS: There is no such thing as "just looking". The "look" is the beginning of the process.
2006-12-21 08:23:37
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answered by Anonymous
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So, what you're saying is you think your male partner looks at other women and you're jealous.
Let's put the shoe on the other foot: Is it wrong for a woman to look and appreciate how good looking another man is?
The idea that just because someone is in a relationship that they can't look at other people and think "that person looks nice" or even "yuck" (as the case may be), is ridiculous.
Love does not cause seizure of beauty appreciation.
I've been happily married for 22 years, I notice when women other than my wife are attractive, she notices when other men are handsome. I've never cheated on her or even flirted with another woman since I've been married.
Methinks the lady doth protest too much. What have *you* done that he doesn't know about? (You better tell him, secrets kill relationships.)
2006-12-23 07:08:10
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answered by replybysteve 5
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All men and all women look at the opposite sex. Being in love does not stop that. Looking is a normal part of human nature and can not be stopped. Just because a man or woman is looking at someone of the opposite sex (or the same sex for some) doesn't mean that they are not in love with their partner. It's not just men that can't help themselves. It's women too.
2006-12-21 08:10:28
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answered by dil7827 2
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Its natural for both men and women to look at others regardless of whether they are in a happy relationship or not. Men just aren't as subtle when it comes to roving eyes. Women have better peripheral vision and thus do not need to look directly at someone else to admire them whereas men doo. Anyone who claims not to look at anyone else when they are in a relationship is either deluded or lying.
2006-12-21 08:09:38
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answered by Anonymous
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Most men look at other women, it is in their genetic make-up. They have in the distant past had to look for the best mate to propagate the species.It doesn't mean that they are interested in others.Its just a hang over from the past.
2006-12-21 08:11:17
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answered by d1ckdeckard 3
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Men can't help themselves, and neither can women... why does this bother you enough to ask? Are you feeling that insecure? I do not mean to insult, but looking is human nature and everyone does it. They can be "trained" not too, but that's just not right.
2006-12-21 09:53:39
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answered by mz.aquagirl 1
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Most people find looking at beautiful things is appealing. For some its a picture/painting.....some its a flower, some like a beautiful sunset. Is natural to want to look at and appreciate beauty. Thats why we all do it lol.
Anyway....ya have to look at things unless you want to walk round with ya head down all the time.
You will probably find that (if you're with a bloke) he looks at ALL women but you only NOTICE when he looks at SOME (maybe attractive in your mind) women. And lets face it...to notice him looking at them you have had to have a look yourself.
:-D
2006-12-21 08:58:21
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answered by bikerchick77_uk 2
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I believe that my BF loves me, but I think he just can't help himself....they act like bees flocking to flowers, and even when he's really trying to pay attention, he sometimes looks....it will be interesting to see what the men have to say about this. My best advice is accept it for what it is and try to concentrate on other positive behaviors he has!
2006-12-21 08:09:31
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answered by XOXOXOXO 5
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I have been happily married for 15 years. Do I feel the need to look at other women? no.. but do I... yes. both consciously and unconsciously
2006-12-21 08:10:52
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answered by Robert W 1
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I am happy in my relationship but still look at other women......and still cant help flirting....but .....could be 'cause I'mkepping the door open having been crapped on so many times in the past...
2006-12-21 08:21:51
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answered by Bluefurball 3
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