We made a bet that if i won he would pleasure me but if he won i would do the same thing for him but i don't feel like it and he won't stop throwing it up that we shook on our bet. What should i do?
2006-12-21 07:58:19 · 65 answers · asked by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Welllllllllll, let's see, you can tell 'em that women dont shake. They put it in writing. And since that did not happen....
Ya gotta know where that puts the result of your bet!
(Next time, bet ONLY on a SURE thing, as he did this time!)
2006-12-21 08:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an answer for both of you. You should pay up and do it the best you can. That way the promise of "pleasuring" in the future will hold a lot of weight. You'd be surprised at what a man will do for a warm, willing bj. On the other hand, if you don't, well your promises aren't worth anything. But I'm thinking he could let you off the hook if it really bothered you, there are consequences dearie either way. Me....I made good on my bets and promises and it was worth it.
2006-12-21 08:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by BETH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Bets a Bet. An honorable person keeps up their end of the deal.
2006-12-21 08:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by legrandchat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Butterfly,
In your own admission you said you made a bet with your husband so if you lose don't be a welsher. Come through with the goods or your word isn't worth anything. It's not about whether or not you want to. It's the principal and your own integrity. Moral of the story is don't make bets you can't keep.
2006-12-21 08:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women lie, deceive, promise and make bets every day and the payoff is sex.
You aren't the first woman to break a promise and go back on your word and you won't be the last.
This is normal behavior for sex-levering tarts who welch on not only bets and promises, but hang onto relationships and make life miserable for the men that dump them later... And not a day too soon.
2006-12-21 08:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time think twice before making a bet - but a bet is a bet; pay up, next time you may win!!!
2006-12-21 08:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by seblexie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a bet, no excuses! Now live up to your bet and stop whining like a little beotch about it because you will lose all credibility if you don't.
2006-12-21 08:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you do not feel like it then why did you make the bet to begin with? Is your feeling one that will pass or is the oral part replusive to you? I suggest proposing a compromise to him that will let him get his pleasure from you without involving your mouth. There are other means.
2006-12-21 08:04:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hire a stand-in. A bets a bet. If you can't follow through on this, why should he trust you on more important matters?
2006-12-21 09:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by m. b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question to me is why you don't feel like holding your end of the deal up. There is some reason why you do not want to and that needs to be considered. I am not trying to pressure you to go one way or the other, just to think about the core problems that keep you from being intimate.
2006-12-21 08:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by Bob T 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋