If he acts this way(see add'l details)
2006-12-21 07:57:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Why is it you ALWAYS have to choose your friends over a girl?? Why is it a cop-out if you choose the girl??
WHY BELIEVE IN BROS B4 HO'S??
(it's stupid)
I don't mind him being with his friends. His friend had kissed me and he was a little upset about it. His friend trying to get his friend back and was making my b/f forgive him by saying to choose. We were together for two years.
2006-12-21 07:57:30 · update #1
more info-
He was holding me in his arms by his pool(he has an indoor pool) and his friend was telling him to choose me or him. My b/f chose his friend and then his friend goes "bro's b4 ho's". I was so mad that I walked up to my b/f and told him to have fun with his bros. I told him not to call, e-mail, IM, or talk to me, b/c I was 100% serious.
He ran behind my porsche for about an hour before he finally quit. He was a good b/f. Should I give him a second chance?? Afterall, It is the holiday season.
I know his friend was there before me. He has called to say he is sorry. Should I forgive and forget??
I don't care about the whole "ho" thing because my friends and I call eachother bitches and hos sometimes when we see eachother in the hall.
2006-12-21 08:01:37 · update #2
Should I forgive him??
2006-12-21 08:03:44 · update #3
well friends ALWAYS come before any relationship. Having a b/f or g/f is temporary, friends are for always. Don't get mad when he chooses his friends over you, he's doing the right thing.
If you two have been dating for two years, why can't you just ask him outright if he still likes you or not? You should be able to talk to each other, if you can't, you seriously have to reconsider the relationship. If he seems like he's sorry, give him one more try, for about a month, and see what happens.
2006-12-21 08:17:40 · answer #1 · answered by countrygurl587 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am trying to understand how he could keep up running after you as you were (driving off??) in your Porsche. (sounds like a scene from Beverly Hills 90210)
Dump it. Guys like that sound really immature. I don't think I would like to be with someone who lumped me in a category such as "Hos". Grow up, get an education, and find a REAL boyfriend who considers women with more respect, instead of calling them HOs.
And putting THAT aside, the "ho business" I mean, most young guys have that mentality. Thinking back on my days as a teenager(back in the Cretaceous Era), I remember guys that chose their friends over girls, which is fine. I did not find a SERIOUS (exclusive) boyfriend until I was 24.
And no it doesn't mean he doesn't "like you". He may just not be ready to put you before his friends.
2006-12-21 16:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by * 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should.
you get second chances, but by the 3rd, ur out the door. so this is the last chance.
doesn't it go hoes b4 bro's? lol
2006-12-21 17:25:26 · answer #3 · answered by la. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF, in fact, you actually DO have a porche....GET OVER IT AND MOVE ON!!!!!!!!!
(even if you don't have a porche...you really need to get some friends that will help boost your self esteem so that you don't have to feel that you don't deserve a guy who will treat you the way you deserve---RESPECTFULLY!!!!)
2006-12-21 16:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup he doesnt like u anymore
2006-12-21 16:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by $Will$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby its just time to call it quits!
2006-12-21 16:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by jessica t 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i go hoes before bros
2006-12-21 18:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋