forget that beauty is in the eye of beholder crap, i'm fugly i mean really ugly i have a great personality but that dont mean crap when your as ugly as me i cant even get the ugly girls to like me becuase i'm so hideous maybe i hsould just end my life right now :(
2006-12-21 07:49:06 · 23 answers · asked by JACkson d 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
No! There is someone for everyone. It is alright, I'm almost eighteen and I have never had a boy like me or even had my first kiss. I don't mind so much because I know it will happen eventually.
2006-12-21 07:53:32 · answer #1 · answered by Sammee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
end ur life r u crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
no way, nu uh!! i am so against that. an as a matter a fact i belive if your ugly u can have a great life. i mean life is just a whole big ...thing!! way 2 big!! there are so many possibilities out there!!!
i mean rite now u can get really rich and u no have a great sucessful life. orrrrr....of course u never no waz gonna happen wen u grow up. i mean it is possible to gro out of ugliness u no. (u can b a great handsome prince ;)
an different people like different people, ur just bound to find 1 person that will b into u. jus don give up!!!!!
.....hey an can be more specific like how are u ugly? i really want to help and i will!!! u seem like such an adorable person. an dun worry my sister's an expert......so iz all set man. anyways u can do that. an yeah u can also adress the q. to my name so i'll like no to go on that 1. ooo an put in the same category as this!! :)
but u no u dun have 2 if u dun want to (like i'm not forcin u or anythin)
....but yeah keep on living !!! an it'll be fine
(plus dyin isn't a solution to anything, iz not like ur gonna get pretty if u die)-----but u can live an change urself an become hoo u want to become (then shove it in mean peoples faces ;)
2006-12-21 08:15:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom always said beauty is as beauty does & the older I get the more I realize it's true. When you step out of your own problems & start caring about others you become attractive to others. Some of the physically ugliest men I've ever known never lacked for dates or girlfriends. I don't know how old you are but the older you get the more true it is. Hubby once had a mutt named Ugly because he was s-o-o-o-o ugly. But everyone loved him because his whole focus was on whoever was with him. Walk in the door & he made you feel like you were the most wonderful person who walked in the room. Listen to you, nuzzled you, etc. The full bred boxer wasn't liked by anyone but family because of his attitude & demands to be the center of attention. Really care about others & listen to them. Notice little things that's different. Life wasn't meant to be easy. Only cowards take the easy way out & leave behind the pain for those with the courage to go on. Many good looking people will tell you they never felt loved for themselves. Just an ornament. Get off your pity party & look around. There's a whole world out there that needs to know someone cares. If you hate yourself it comes through in your attitude to others whether you realize it or not. No one likes to be around someone who thinks they're worthless or ugly. Look at the wedding page of most papers & you'll be surprised how many really ugly men and/or women are getting married to a beauty. It really is in the eyes of the beholder. Both physically, mentally, emotionally & spiritually.
2006-12-21 08:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by syllylou77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls aren't nearly as superficial when it comes to looks as guys, so all you have to do is develop other traits that make you attractive. You say you have a great personality, so that's a start. A great sense of humor will score big points, as will just being polite and being willing to talk and listen.
If you're saying you have an ugly face, work out so that you have a great body. Pay extra attention to how you dress and carry yourself. Always be well-groomed: Cut your hair regularly and wash it every day. Trim nails once a week and make sure they're clean. Wear cologne, but just a little, nothing is worse than too much cologne on a guy. Bleach your teeth and don't forget to smile.
If you pay attention to the details, you'll be fine. Seriously, you don't have to be good-looking to find someone.
2006-12-21 08:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by JenJen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man invented beer for a reason :). Eventually you will find someone. There are legitimately people that will: 1) Will like your look, no matter how ugly you are. Think about all of the weird fetish people there are; and how tough a time they must have finding someone who digs that. 2) Will look beyond your look. There are a lot more shallow people than there are good people, but there are still some good people left.
If you're not having much luck, keep trying. It's a game of numbers, and every no means you are closer to a yes! Also, don't go for just the uggo's. Find someone you like and don't care good looking or bad...basically, judge them the same way you want to be judged.
2006-12-21 08:06:43 · answer #5 · answered by none 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone for everyone. People that judge you soley on what you look like (whether good or bad) are not worth your time.
If you feel you have a great personality, someones bound to see that too and appreciate you for the real you. I doubt you are that hideous...there is beauty in everyone and clearly I am not the only one who believes that.
The right girl will like you for you, and when you find her yalls relationship will be that much more special.
For now concentrate on other things then your looks..hobbies,sports,friends,etc....or try doing something different with your hair or wardrobe,sideburns and shaving (I don't know how old you are..)
For now surround yourself with ppl that bring you up, not down.
There is no such thing as a hideous person unless they are shallow and ugly on the inside..even if they are physically "beautiful".
Hope you feel better soon!!
Merry Christmas!!!
2006-12-21 08:43:03 · answer #6 · answered by XxON3LOV3xX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look everyone thinks at one time in their that they are the ugly duckling and no one will ever love them. You should never think of yourself like that but it is hard at times. Give it time and keep being yourself, besides how do you know that your are alone because of your looks you could just be goofy and the girls don't take you seriously. Your question here sounds very negative so maybe that is what other people see, think about that before thinking that ending your life is the answer, it isn't.
2006-12-21 08:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by kna0831 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is someone out there for everyone...and I mean everyone... It's just a matter of not being so shy and just being out there....I've never really considered myself to be attractive, however I've had a few boyfriends....
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder..
One thing I noticed was that as I got older, my preferences changed....I don't go for cocky and handsome, usually there's some major flaw you don't see.
I go for personality and confidence....and I am Not kidding...
2006-12-21 08:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you are being too hard on yourself. There is someone out there for everyone, but if you feel sorry for yourself, you will give off a negative vibe that tells people to stay away. It's not how you look, it's the image of yourself that you project on to the world and if you are confident and positive, you will find people will warm to you, no matter how you look. Take care : )
2006-12-21 12:18:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well me personally I would rather go out with a nice guy that isn't cute than go out with a guy that's shallow b/c no one is perfect and every one finds things that are wrong with them and as for the end your life thing u have only got one life so why end it or spend it worrying about what other people think so forget all about all the bad things about u and think of all the good things.If u just don't care usually nether will other people.
2006-12-21 08:32:17 · answer #10 · answered by dogsmz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋