have this recurring dream in which I am married to another man. (I'm happily married in the waking world) I don't know the man I'm married to in the dream in real life. In my dream the marriage is unhappy. Sort of like a marriage of convenience. Conversation with my dream husband is always in gibberish and always leaves me feeling depressed. In my dream I am having an affair with the man I am actually married to in real life. We speak English and I always feel good around him in my dream (and in real life) but at the end of my dream I am overcome with guilt. I always want to leave my dream husband and be with my dream lover (actual husband) but I'm never able to. I always have to stay with my dream husband. I try but one thing or another always stops me. The situations enacted in the dream are always different but I always an unhappy w/ dream husband and never can tell dream lover how I really feel. Any help on what this might mean?
2006-12-21 07:02:35 · 7 answers · asked by bubb1e_gir1 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You are into some sort of denial.
dream husband = unsatisfied conscience
lover in dream (or real husband in life) = make up fantasy
It seems like you are looking for some sort adventure out of your life. You subconsciously want to experience what is like to have an affair. Even though your true life husband is actually the lover in the dream, you end up cheating yourself in dream. That could translate into denial towards reality. You probably are not quite content with what your real husband give you or Perhaps I should say he is too perfect for you. You subconsciously want some fault from your hubby. That may sound strange, but that is reflection of denial or dissatisfaction in your part. In other words, you are not satisfied in a good way.
For example, some rich guys like to go to store and steal which he has no need to, but that is the excitement and adventure he is looking for. You may be similar in that situation, but only happens in dream. That reflects your personalities and how you feel being with your husband. You have recurring dream because you can't get this unhealthy thought in your mind just like the rich guy.
2006-12-21 07:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-03 13:34:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think...Just my opinion...
Your dream is telling you that the man you married is the right man...
The man in your dream is the wrong dream..I think you are truely happy w/ the man you married, but you were unsure about it...This is your brain way of saying keep this guy he is a winner..
2006-12-21 07:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To dream that you are planning your own wedding to someone you never met, is a metaphor symbolizing the union of your masculine and feminine side. It represents a transitional phase where you are seeking some sort of balance between your aggressive side and emotional side.
2006-12-21 07:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by P W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe ur just really happily married to ur man but ur lives r so busy that u dont see each other as often...
so ur afraid that some other nonsense guy will take u away
spend some time with ur real man ;)
2006-12-21 08:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by HS Sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is your sub-conscious way of reminding yourself how lucky you are to be with your current husband.
It also highlights some fear that you would not be with your husband in real-life, lose him. This is an under-lying fear of yours because you are happy with him.
2006-12-21 09:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by David M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means nothing....or nothing worth getting riled up over.. don't take dreams too seriously..... thats just your mind telling stories.
2006-12-21 07:08:44 · answer #7 · answered by Other sheep 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋