have this recurring dream in which I am married to another man. (I'm happily married in the waking world) I don't know the man I'm married to in the dream in real life. In my dream the marriage is unhappy. Sort of like a marriage of convenience. Conversation with my dream husband is always in gibberish and always leaves me feeling depressed. In my dream I am having an affair with the man I am actually married to in real life. We speak English and I always feel good around him in my dream (and in real life) but at the end of my dream I am overcome with guilt. I always want to leave my dream husband and be with my dream lover (actual husband) but I'm never able to. I always have to stay with my dream husband. I try but one thing or another always stops me. The situations enacted in the dream are always different but I always an unhappy w/ dream husband and never can tell dream lover how I really feel. Any help on what this might mean?
2006-12-21 06:59:13 · 7 answers · asked by bubb1e_gir1 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
A psychologist, specialising in dreams, once told me that your dreams blow things out of proportion to catch your attention. A minor problem that needs attention is made into a huge lion stalking you and so on.
If you look at it in that light, maybe you'll figure out what the dream means.
I don't think those interpretation books out there mean much. I feel dreams mean different things in each person's scenario.
What the other person there said, that maybe it's abotu your work, or some other current relationship ( your father, or siblings).
2006-12-21 07:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I don't know you at all, I don't know what it might mean to you. But if I had had the same dream, I think that it might mean this to me:
I am living under circumstances that I have chosen myself, that other people seem to expect me to continue, and which I therefore believe are the right and appropriate for me, so I feel obliged to stay within their boundaries. However, something in me rebels against this kind of life, that feels more and more oppressive. It doesn't fulfil my inner dreams and my real needs. There is a gap between my outer and my inner self, and there is no real communication between them. I would like to leave the circumstances which oppress something very important inside me, but I am also afraid to do it, so I find all kinds of excuses that stop me from doing it. My dream lover (real husband) represents love, feelings, true communication, creativity, adventure, dreams, unfulfilled ambitions of my youth. My dream husband represents circumstances that are safe, expected, sensible, mature, stable, but no longer nurturing for my soul and out of touch with a very important part of myself. I think I would need to invite my dream lover to my house and see what these two guys would have to say to each other - and, more important, what I would say to them. Bigamy, or friendly cohabitation, might be an option :-)
2006-12-21 07:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by AskAsk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sub conscience is telling you that marriage with another guy would be impossible because of communication difficulties. And that marriage with your real husband is what you really want because he seem fulfilling all aspects of what you see in a husband
2006-12-21 07:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by gregtkt120012002 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a temptation coming your way.... remember your dream, the temptation is not worth what you think it will be. Stay with your husband. Be faithful to the end.
Its a message. You will regret if you leave him for the temptation.
2006-12-21 07:06:53 · answer #4 · answered by SunValleyLife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage talks about the relationship with you and God, so your relationship with God is messed up somehow, its between you and God to unravel why you are always feeling guilty, maybe you soend too much time with yoru husband and not enought time, with God, maybe you are unsaved, who knows only you do, but your relatioship between you and God is out of whack. Ephesians 5:31-32.
2006-12-21 11:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your dream husband represents your work. or something else that you feel almost "married" too. And that leaves you stressed and upset. so if it was work, you wish you could spend more time with your real hubby, but work takes up most of your time and you cant just leave it.
2006-12-21 07:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by Catalyst 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this dream means you are with your soul mate (in real life) congrats!!
2006-12-21 10:34:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋