I have this recurring dream in which I am married to another man. (I'm happily married in the waking world) I don't know the man I'm married to in the dream in real life. In my dream the marriage is unhappy. Sort of like a marriage of convenience. Conversation with my dream husband is always in gibberish and always leaves me feeling depressed. In my dream I am having an affair with the man I am actually married to in real life. We speak English and I always feel good around him in my dream (and in real life) but at the end of my dream I am overcome with guilt. I always want to leave my dream husband and be with my dream lover (actual husband) but I'm never able to. I always have to stay with my dream husband. I try but one thing or another always stops me. The situations enacted in the dream are always different but I always an unhappy w/ dream husband and never can tell dream lover how I really feel. Any help on what this might mean?
2006-12-21 06:52:24 · 4 answers · asked by bubb1e_gir1 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like in your subconscious you may feel like you are undeserving of your real husband, or you are afraid your marriage isn't permanent. You are afraid your relationship is temporary and you will be ripped away from it one day, but you are hanging onto it for as long as you can.
The cool thing is, it is only a dream, and when you wake up you are in reality and he is laying beside you. That is when you get to roll over and wrap your arms around him and know that he is yours and you are his.
Dream interpretation is fun, but dreams rarely have any real relation to life, besides just what is in your subconscious. This just seems to be a situation of a little insecurity on your part, or low self-esteem. Don't let it worry you.
2006-12-21 07:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by PDH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your subconscious is telling you that you are happier in real life than you feel that you have a right to be.
"Don't look a gift horse in the mouth" might be prudent here.
even if it is "just a dream", it's using bits and pieces from YOUR brain to construct it. it might not come together as being meaningful, but every little scrap of it is somehow relevant to your experiences or feelings.
2006-12-21 14:55:26 · answer #2 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dream husband represents someone in your past, who might have hurt u, u aren't able to voice your opinion or even communicate with dream husband, u are just happy to be with real hubby and happy u never made the mistake of marrying this other man. he represents someone in your past.
2006-12-21 15:25:10 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a DREAM!
2006-12-21 14:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋