serching for Heidi - born in 1963
2006-12-21 06:49:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
It is so hard (impossible is what my friend says) for a parent that put their child up for adoption to find them. My friend gave her daughter up for adoption 22 years ago and has been trying to find her for the past 3 years. Its really up to the child if they want to find you. While most children that are adopted thank their birth parents for trying to give them a better life some havent gotten to that point. You dont know where Heidi is right now. The resourses she has to find you are easier. I pray that when she is ready that she looks for you. Merry Christmas. God Bless.
2006-12-21 06:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by Kristin Pregnant with #4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The internet is a great tool to locate someone. You can set up your own website, probably a myspace page would be best, and it's free! But, you will need to include a lot more details than you did in your question, like where she was born, what hospital, and birth weight and hair color, things like that would help narrow the search. Good luck!
2006-12-21 07:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by quizicalgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck to you... I have been trying to find my birth parents/siblings for the past 9 years (since I turned 18) Most states have certain laws about this. When you gave her up for adoption...their may have been a wavier allowing her to contact you when she reached legal age. That is what I was told by the courthouse (i am in Ohio) I signed my papers allowing any blood relative to find me... but 9 years later nothing has turned up. Keep in mind also... if she was very young her birth certificate may have been changed (as mine was) showing her adoptive parents as her real parents. Most states have adoption registries online, check with your state's website and call around to the courthouses. Checking into the adoption agencie, or hiring a PI is a good way to go too... if you have the money. Good luck on your search!
2006-12-21 10:11:23 · answer #3 · answered by trippinwurmz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a private investigator or go to the hospital where she was born and do some investigating on your own... Hope you find her.. Merry Christmas
2006-12-21 07:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by Kat0312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their are source's out there, search on the internet, look in your yellow page's, ask for help, it is a easy thing for those out there who specialize in searching for people, and they can direct you to help that will not cost an arm and a leg.
2006-12-21 07:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by Big Jake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are some websites that you can go to. hey maybe you could help me find my mom. nicole born on spetember 26 1991. let me know how you do
2006-12-21 06:51:41 · answer #6 · answered by tony the tigress 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope and pray you will find her happy and welladjusted ,i'm looking for my granddaughter Alexia born in 1998.Good luck and may God bless our efforts with success.
2006-12-21 06:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you find her best of luck to you in your search
2006-12-21 07:50:34 · answer #8 · answered by kierstensmom102705 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the Maury show they have been reuniting families for years and it is free.
2006-12-21 06:54:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try contacting the adoption agency if theyr stillopen they can give your daughter any letter you write to her and if she wants to meet you they wil help you set up the meeting.
2006-12-21 07:02:17 · answer #10 · answered by psychoticangel_kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋