marriage, you should know each other well enough when you decide to marry... :o)
2006-12-21 06:46:31
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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I think live together than marry. Your correct about that.It does give you a chance to see how the other person interacts on a daily basis. It doesn't take the fun out or getting married. I think that that is what most cuples do. I have a friend and he lived with his girl for 2 years. The broke up though. The were going to get married but they decited not to yet. Now there back together and happy. See how things could work out for you.
2006-12-21 06:48:25
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answered by Anonymous
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Living together before marriage is not a good idea. That shows that the lack of confidence for each other, and certainly the lack of true love. Why you have to test a person first whom you have chooses as your partner. If once your heart has said that “Yes this is the right person”, then take the chance and get married.
When you start living with someone then off-course lovemaking is there which makes it all like a marriage. But technically gives an open door to run away to both, and in most cases it is the male who takes the advantage and leaves the woman to taste some other girl.
Although I am a male my sincere advise to girls “Go for marriage don’t do these experiments, in the end you will be looser”
2006-12-21 07:01:20
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answered by salcsan 3
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Most would argue for the trial period. But heres the thing. Say you get married and set then set up a new household....... find a place or one of you moves into the others. So instead of enjoying being newly married you also have to get settled in and comfortable. Seems like a lot. So what you do is move in together, get engaged and set a date. You can get comfortable in a new place, used to each other and still have the almost married commitment. As far as taking the fun out of it... well getting married is getting married..... as long as you don't wait 2 years or something.
2006-12-21 06:53:27
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answered by jackson 7
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Be engaged about two years. That way you go through good, bad, & sad times and you will know them well.
If you can't wait, then I would say live together. I use to not think so and would had answered marry. But, we were engaged briefly and got married. I did not know this person at all. I just thought I knew this person. I was in too deep to get out, and I have been used, abused and hurt for two years now. Were separated and I still don't know which way is up. You really need to know this person over a period of time before making a lifelong committment. You could get lucky, but that is alot to risk. Believe me.
2006-12-21 07:11:23
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answered by Wondrin Dude 3
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I really think you guys should try living together first. It always helps to see how he'll act at home and if hes really messy or unhelpful at home. Living together lets you have an experience of whether things will be different. It doesnt take the fun out of getting married! The fun of getting married is really about planning the wedding together and the honeymoon and knowing you get to spend the rest of your life with the person you love.
2006-12-21 06:47:59
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answered by Sexy Muskrat<3 2
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Statistically speaking, living together has not been shown to decrease the chances of getting divorced. Some people feel better about living together first though. As long as you are both on the same page about what direction your relationship is going in, it isn't something that would be bad for you.
2006-12-21 06:48:02
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answered by TM 2
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My 2 sisters and bother lived with their special someones before getting married, but I will not be doing that. My guy and I will marry first, move in second. Whatever works for you.
I have read that people who live together first are more likely to divorce than those who don't.
2006-12-21 06:47:21
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answered by melouofs 7
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I think you should live together first. Today is nothing like it was when our parents and grandparents grew up. People divorce way to frequently. Living together will help you figure out if the other person is someone that you can live with for the rest of your life. I am not saying it would stop all divorces from happening, but you could never say "Hey, I didn't realize he did _______"
2006-12-21 06:49:08
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answered by Anonymous
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I strongly recommend living with someone first. I got married before I lived with him and the marriage didn't last 6 months. I lived with someone for over 2 years and it made me realized that I could never marry that person. You really get to know someone when you are around them for a long period of time. They could be messy or you may not be able to tolerate them.
2006-12-21 06:51:53
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answered by Lucky13 3
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Live together, definitely. There are so many different things one discovers about a partner when they live together that they didn't know before.
Marrying and living together for the first time might be a shock.
2006-12-21 06:47:36
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answered by tamara_cyan 6
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