Okay, I have liked this guy I met in grade school and he liked me too, but then we hardly saw each other. He got over me, and has a girl friend, but I still like him. I have tried to get over him but my friends can't help me. They started telling me that if I can't get over him, It's meant but he said he doesn't like me that he has a girl friend. Then my friends started calling him Mr. Potential, but he found out and now things are bad. We have a lot of the same classes so I have to see him all the time. Not even the winter break from school is helpping. And now that the whole grade knows every one is talking about it along with my other problems. I really need good advise and not the kind I get from a Counselor. My friends give me enough of that.
2006-12-21 06:27:20 · 8 answers · asked by samantha h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds to me like you are focusing all your energy on this guy. I would suggest that you join a Christian youth group and study the Word of God and see what He may have in store for you...what your purpose is.
Focus on God, your family and school and then the rest will work out in its own time.
God Bless you and have a Very Merry Christmas.
2006-12-21 06:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by Buff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have wnt through this problem before, but not for as long as you have. I think that you should just tell him. But don't do it like a psycho like screaming it out at a party in front of all his friends and his girl. You mentioned that the two of you are friends, so maybe you can invite him to lunch and tell him then. I hope that my advice has helped you.
2006-12-21 06:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by nana128 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem i have like a guy already a year but he doesnt love me cause he's sis has been forcing him to love me and so he got tired of me so,,anyway u have to talk to him personal cause he has to know how u feel and that u want him to gave u a chance to demostrate him that u could love him more than anyone else cause u have been supporting every comment 6 years and 11 months and well sometimes friends think they know how it feels but the true is that no one can feel the same pian u feel, sooo go ahead tell him how much u love him and that u've been waiting 6 longs years to have a chance to prove how much u love him ok....plz e-mail me when u already done it so u can tell me the results of if u have any question 2:sheystar@hotmail.com...good luck
2006-12-21 06:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hy,
First you have to forget every nice thing about him. Then you need to remeber that you egzist too, and probebly he need to forgot you also.
Try to remabre every nasty thing that he did to you and found a way to repay him for his lovly servis he provided you in last 6 years and 11.
In meantime try to feel whitch boy likes you, probably in your close environment.
If something is dimly abot my answer(probably is) ask, if you need a explication....
Byyy...
2006-12-21 07:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by Etlen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try dating someone else or go to a spa and treat your self or go somewhere you feel goood . or every time you think of him listen to a cd that relaxes you that you like very much.make up a girls day for yourself eat stuff that you love to eat.just go out and mingle and see what you can find.
2006-12-21 06:34:59 · answer #5 · answered by Tocarra B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some1 else! This will work on 2 levels, firstly it will take your mind off this other guy. Secondly he may start to get jealous when he sees you with some1 else. Guys are weird and want what they can't have.
2006-12-21 06:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by Yaz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to impress him. Do you remember anything he liked before? try to make him want you back. stop pushin so hard. it'll happen
2006-12-21 06:33:12 · answer #7 · answered by tz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is very simple........find another guy that you like more!!!!
you can do it..........
2006-12-21 06:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by besthusbandever 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋