2006-12-21 06:19:21 · 24 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It depends on the problem. As long as the problem doesn't involve my husband, then I turn to him immediately. When the problem involves my husband, I turn to trusted friends.
2006-12-21 06:45:46 · answer #1 · answered by E! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My spouse who is my best and trusted friend. If you can't turn to your spouse (unless they are the problem or are the types that freak out over problems) then who else can you turn to?
Another thing, If I couldn't turn to my spouse with a big problem, then I wouldn't be married to them.
2006-12-21 06:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by hw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go for as long a walk as I can and for several days. You would be amazed how things take a different perspective...
Probably because you are doing something very symmetrical and it obliges the two sides of your brain to actively interact...
I suppose, yoga and Tai Chi or quiet meditation could help too...
When you ask someone else, you risk to burden them with your problem and if you follow their advices and they turn not as expect, everyone feels awkward...
Then you can talk to whoever you trust the best in the circumstances, once your spouse, once your friend....
2006-12-21 06:28:56 · answer #3 · answered by klaartedubois 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way that I see it is that I would turn to my spouse first you are in a commited relationship and you are supposed to be able to communicate about anything but if there isnt any communication there then I guess I would say turn to your trusted friend first. I know how it is I was in a marriage and my husband always seem to get mad at me because I wouldnt turn to him. He didnt understand that we didnt have the type of communication like most couples do.....Good luck
2006-12-21 06:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by Amy Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big problems are usually spouse related. Better to go to the trusted friend first. Then to your spouse. Then probably to the marriage counselor. Or your sidepiece.
2006-12-21 06:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by mck642 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say your spouse should be first. Isn't your spouse supposed to be your most trusted friend?
2006-12-21 06:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by bryan c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what the problem is, if ur problem is with your spouse, u gotta turn to ur trusted friend.
but i hope you also consider ur spouse ur trusted friend.
2006-12-21 06:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, my spouse. I turn to both, though.
2006-12-21 06:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yahoo answers mostly
I look at the 30 answers from random people.
Friends or relatives are biased
random people, all ages and sexes, is better
then read all 30 and get the gist of what feels right for me
2006-12-21 06:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spouse is all I really have anyways.
2006-12-21 06:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋