shed been cheating on me.so when i asked her to go into it ,she said that she was just testing me to see if i trusted her!!! we were very very drunk and she apologised for manipulating the situation.why would she do that???
2006-12-21 06:17:51 · 22 answers · asked by lisasbarred 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
She was merely looking for re-assurance that you really care. Just tell her you adore her and take it from there.
2006-12-21 06:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by breedgemh_101 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She was playing around with your conscience and why she chose such a sickening method is a mystery and you need to ask her why. She might have been telling you the actual thing but doing so in a manipulative way and being drunk she thought you wouldn't remember. But since she apologised, why don't you let it pass, for in showing patience you will easily catch her at her game; but if you try to be too vocal, she will be so discreet such that you may stay with her for 2 or 5 years or more without knowing that she is cheating you. So just be cool and tolerant.
2006-12-21 08:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by marizani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all a manipulative game that some people play. She's either insecure about your trust in her or...she really is cheating! I hate games like this, but they happen. Maybe u should be a little cautious for a while (just to make sure she's really not up to sumthing), and let her know that u didnt appreciate the joke.
2006-12-21 06:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because all women are pure evil and always get what they want by law they all shout up for this equal rights stuff but then when they get divorced they want half Ur house and Ur wages for the rest of Ur life ok they want equal rights go out get a job and pay for yourself like we do
2006-12-22 20:38:21 · answer #4 · answered by dave c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is insecure about you and is wanting a reaction from you.
I would assume that when she is saying she is cheating, she is looking for signs that you are hurt. When she sees that you are hurt by this, it shows her that you do care. Strange way of doing it, but I can relate.
2006-12-21 14:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by benn26k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows. Women are strange, weird creatures. Thats why I'm gay. Much simpler everyone...except my boyfriends.
2006-12-21 08:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by Fraser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dodgy get her to take a lie detecter test
2006-12-21 06:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she's insecure
she's just testing you
she cheated and wants to know your reaction
she's got low self-esteem
she's evil
2006-12-21 09:48:11 · answer #8 · answered by keeley 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying and just go make love to her
2006-12-21 07:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by Fantasy686 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Messing with your head, urgh sack that.
2006-12-21 20:34:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋