they will ask ..."HOW DID IT HAPPEN?"..you say...."I wasn't there"...when did it happen?...you say "along time ago"...why do they want to know these things????should i tell them up front..."i do not want anyone asking me personal questions.."...because some people will ask you stuff..but then when you turn it around, they will NOT answer anything about themselves??? what should you say to those types???ALSO WHAT IF YOU FEEL DEEP IN YOUR HEART THAT THESE TYPES ARE NOT GOOD FOR YOU...so you walk away...
2006-12-21 06:03:18 · 5 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
It really sounds like that you have let someone in your past get close to you, you shared things, but somehow you were hurt by this person. If you don't feel like sharing personal details about yourself with casual acquaintances, then you should certainly say something, because maybe that person doesn't know they are making you uncomfortable with their questions. You don't have to be rude, but when they ask you something you don't want to answer, just say "well that's kind of personal, let's talk about something else". If they are "cool" people they will respect that.
The more important piece is your last sentence in which you ask, "if you feel deep in your heart that these types are not good for you". If you feel the association you have with this individual is not good for you, then you don't need to be a part of it. Always think of what's best for you above all else. Anytime you are hesitant about an association, there is probably a really good reason and you should follow your gut instinct.
2006-12-21 06:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by Slice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I keep it simple by replieing "I'd rather not talk about it, it's kinda personal and if they don't get the hint their rude and nosey so I tell them to get the hell away from me.
2006-12-21 14:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm interesting. So why did you ask this question? Why are you upset? Did anything bad happen in your life? If so what?
2006-12-21 14:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by james w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't start the conversation about it then, people can't pry unless you let them.
2006-12-21 14:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You think that your life is nobodys business when really it is everyones.
2006-12-21 14:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by Eva 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋