There are members of my ex's family that still send christmas cards to both of us as "mr. and mrs" at my address. Obviously they don't know we're divorced. We split up 4 years ago and we're both re-married to other people.
What should I do with the cards?
2006-12-21 05:53:50 · 12 answers · asked by Lulamilu 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The issue is not what to do with the cards....the issue is his relatives not knowing you are divorced.
You may wish to send a card in return with a separate included note that you are so sorry, but it appears that they are not aware of your divorce and that you have remarried. Omit any sharing of knowledge about HIS remarriage. That is up to him to divulge.
2006-12-21 07:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by sage seeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still friends with the family, why not send them a card as well?? I don't think there is any wrong in doing so. Enclose a letter thanking them for the card, and explain to them that you are now re-married and that you will continue to stay in touch with them (that is as long as there are no hard feelings between you and them).
2006-12-21 06:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by bryan c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you planning? They are just being nice people being nice to family members, including you, who they considered to be family.
Do with them as you would any other Christmas cards. Although maybe you could write a reply card saying "thanks for your well wishes. All the best to you. (name) and I unfortunately divorced in 200X. He now lives at (blank, presumably you know). Merry Christmas to you and best wishes in the future.
Would that be so hard to do? They will probably wonder what was wrong with your husband that he divorced a classy lady like you.
2006-12-21 05:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send them a card with a little note attached explaining when you guys divorced and what the new situation is now.
Then with them a happy Holiday.
2006-12-21 06:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deliver the cardboard. that's that factor of the three hundred and sixty 5 days. No you do not ought to ask your sister. basically because she divorced him does not recommend the kin had to divorce him besides. they'd their complications, and see you later as that did not contain then you i do not see some thing incorrect with you sending a card.
2016-12-01 01:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by abigail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep the cards and mail them back one explaining that you are no longer married to your ex and have a new husband.
2006-12-21 05:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by Sim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang them on your tree, or above your door or wherever you people hang the cards. Maybe you can take them back to hall-mark store and get an in store credit!
2006-12-21 05:57:13 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send them back and put your new last name on the card!
2006-12-21 06:10:47 · answer #8 · answered by star-e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just return them unopened with "wrong address" written on them. When they look into why it was returned they'll figure it out.
2006-12-21 06:11:35 · answer #9 · answered by Jenna G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't open them and write, "return to sender... adressee no longer lives here" on the envelope. This will get their attention and they will investigate why it was returned.
2006-12-21 05:59:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋