If it doesn't work the first time it wont work the second. That is a fact.Old issues will keep coming up.
2006-12-21 05:19:47
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answered by TakeNoticeNow 3
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It doens't really matter what others think...it's not anyone elses business. I've known people who have done this.. and all of them have lived happily ever after... the second time that is. Each couple is different, and without being one of the parties invovled... you can't really say WHY they did it twice. Sometimes they were just too young the first time. Sometimes there was "outside" influences that caused them to divorce the first time.( family, nosey friends etc) People and situations change. Sometimes two people really do LOVE each other and want to be together... but due to whatever the reason.. it doesn't work out. If somewhere down the line they relize that love is still there.. and situations that ended their marriage are no longer there.. then more power to them to try again.
2006-12-21 13:25:46
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answered by girlgriffin711 2
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You were probably too d*mn quick to get divorced in the first place! On the other hand, sometimes it's hard to grow in each other's shadow. Space may give you that opportunity. Then, when you come back together, you are more mature and can appreciate the new "you's" better. I think it can work. But you did break up for a reason. That reason better be resolved or you're just headed for divorce number 2.
2006-12-21 13:24:13
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answered by lucypearl 1
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My husband and I separated and then filed for divorce, went through the hearing and before our six month waiting period was up we changed our minds. I think that it is great if two people who fell in and out of love can find it again. I do agree it is a bit crazy but ups and downs are inevitable even severe ones. We have a son and we could not be happier knowing that we stuck with it in the end and made it work. Good luck if your in this situation.
2006-12-21 13:20:21
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answered by Love2 2
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I think maybe they grow up a little and realize that they married each other for a reason. They also realized that they did stupid things and ruined a good marriage because they were too immature.
Now they are a little wiser and know how to make it work. I think if they can and it's real that's great.
2006-12-21 13:18:51
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answered by fucose_man 5
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Still in love, but, cant stand each other...
And, for those who "do it again", I pray that the second time they get counceling so that they will learn to love one another, the way they did when they were first married...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-12-21 13:19:17
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answered by x 7
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it depends:
if you are talking about renewing wedding vows... that can be pretty sweet and romantic.
if you are talking about multiple weddings for one marriage like a certain celebrity couple just did and then lasted for a few hours and got divorced... no way.
if you mean people who marry, divorce, and then get back together... that's tough. they really have to be careful and as sure as possible and make sure the previous issues are resolved.
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2006-12-21 13:20:52
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answered by leavemealonestalker 6
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My brother has married the same woman twice.
They are now twice divorced.
I dont know. I mean I guess if you really loved someone you could work it out but then you prob wouldn't have gotten divorced in the first place.
If it's broke...don't fix it.
2006-12-21 13:18:30
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answered by Mimi 7
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You mean like M&M and Kim? Kind of weird don't you think. They are getting divorced a second time now.....
We seperated for a reason. I love her but wouldn't go backwards. Its all about moving forward baby...
2006-12-21 13:23:43
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answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4
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They are either addicted to drama, or to eachother. Hopefully it will work out. Some people need more than one go around to get it right. Best of luck to anyone willing to go through the fire of divorce and stil see something worthwhile in their perrenial spouse.â¥
2006-12-21 13:21:25
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answered by Liligirl 6
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