We haven't even finished filing divorce papers.
2006-12-21 04:58:18 · 17 answers · asked by melly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no definitely not... bringing kids into the situation is horrible... what if it doesnt work with this girl he is having an affair with? then there is another girl in their life, then she leaves, then another one. the cycle keeps going on and on...
not to mention it doesnt teach the children good habits, when they grow up they will realize what their fahter was doing and may thik its ok
2006-12-21 05:03:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your divorcing isn't much you can do about it. He may intend on seeing this woman after the divorce also and his time with kids you will not be able to dictate. Although, its sounds he is being real petty right now and could show a little class. Right now this is doing nothing but confusing your children.
2006-12-21 13:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its absolutely wrong. But you guys are not longer together and therefore there is nothing you can do about it.
Its completely unacceptable and it just confuses the kids more with too many mommies and daddies...
I feel your pain. I just got separated from a girl with two kids and since they are not mine she is not letting me see them at all. I miss them and I leave an envelope with money and little letters for them in the garden behind her house and they write something small back... other than that I cannot do anything else to keep in touch with them or keep them in my life
2006-12-21 13:21:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really rude and selfish for him to do that. But, hey, that's one of the many reasons you are divorcing him. Consider the source and tell him what an asshole he is, then don't let it get to you anymore. There is not much you can do.
Sorry about your situation, its not fair.
Have a great Christmas and try not to think about it too much.
2006-12-21 13:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by darrellkern 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's right, I'd probably kick her *%$! and his... BUT you have children and you need to be the bigger person. If he is that inconsiderate of his own children's feelings, you've got to be. Let your attorney know what is going on and see what they advise. Get the papers filed ASAP. So you can move on and put that loser behind you and your family. (sorry, that upset me too, I'm sick of people like that.)
2006-12-21 13:04:21 · answer #5 · answered by not2bright 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not a great choice but you even though you are divorcing these are still your kids and you still have a say. It is true he won't care what you think but make your opinion known...what do you have left to loose.
2006-12-21 13:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by Love2 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. He should not hide or lie to his kids just because the two of you aren't staying together. Whether the divorce is final or not they'll meet her. Most of these questions have nothing to do with how the kids feel but how we feel.
2006-12-21 13:05:00 · answer #7 · answered by Love to Love 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Right or wrong, if he's not commiting any LEGAL crime, there isn't anything you can do about it.
It may not be MORALLY correct, but no judge is going to look at that.
You can't keep him from doing so, he's not doing anything legally wrong.
2006-12-21 13:36:16 · answer #8 · answered by moniquebell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not right but if he is smart, he wouldn't. Kids talk and don't lie and his wife will found out.
2006-12-21 13:30:21 · answer #9 · answered by blaquechyna1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not right but not much you can do about it....talk to the lawyer for his/her opinion
2006-12-21 13:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by Lil Jello 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋