i am already in a new relationship with this girl, but in not sure if she is the one i really love..because she is very much similar to my Ex!! some times i see my Ex when my girlfriend is doing things thet my ex usually does...what i mean is, its like being inlove with this person with two faces...will i tell my girlfriend about it??what will i do??
2006-12-21 04:44:33 · 10 answers · asked by spawn_83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Assuming that your ex is a person you didn't like for some reason, this may be a pattern of attraction where you get yourself into relationships with the same type of women. You may want to evaluate what you like about your girlfriend and what bothers you, and if you can't live with those bad things, then seek a girl that doesn't have those qualities.
2006-12-21 04:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by Lowa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ironic....! Well, if your new girlfriend's personality is similar to your Ex's, then things that cause you and your Ex to break up may occur again in this new relationship of yours. I mean, your new girlfriend could be better than your Ex, which can be a good thing, right? Just try to get over the past and live in the future.....enjoy your new relationship with your girlfriend. Pick a certain time to tell your new girlfriend about how she is similar to your Ex. I believe she would uunderstand and probably won't be mad! ^_^ Best of luck!
2006-12-21 04:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very interesting. I'm wondering if you are attracted to your current g/f because she reminds you so much of you ex. Not a good situation. If that is true, then you are not being fair to her or yourself. It also sounds like you're not completely over you ex. Though, I could be wrong. Sounds like you need to seriously think long and hard about the things you like/dislike about your g/f... if they happen to be the same things you loved about your ex... you might want to ask your self if it's your ex you actually want. P.S. If you do mention this to your girlfriend don't be suprised if she gets offended - she should.
2006-12-21 05:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by Queryous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well: I don't know if this will help. I read in a psychological report that when we look for a mate we usually find one that has a lot of similar characteristics that resemble our own, therefore we're doomed from the start because whatever we do, we're going to look for the same type of creature we just got rid of, like ourselves.
If we can go be this, then your in the ballpark. Otherwise have a friend that you can trust pick out a mate for you.
2006-12-21 04:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are worried about being attracted to traits, instead of individuals. I would imagine lots of girls have similar habits, but that doesn't mean you're searching for a clone of your ex-girlfriend. Don't stress out about it. It sounds like you found the qualities you like in a person you like. Enjoy it.
And don't tell her. New girlfriends hate being compared to ex-girlfriends.
2006-12-21 04:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously, must till have feelings for you ex girlfriend . becuase if you are still thinking about her and "seeing her" shes on your mind. just forget about her.
2006-12-21 04:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by oh snapp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe deep down that's what attracted you to this girl?
if not, then you might want to either learn to deal with it, ask her to change some of her habits, or find someone else.
2006-12-21 04:47:51 · answer #7 · answered by Nina Abb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't say anything to your girlfriend. that's just going to cause problems. just try your best not to call your girlfriend your x's name.
2006-12-21 04:48:28 · answer #8 · answered by Castle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a pearl necklce and see how you feel then.
2006-12-21 04:47:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her and let her know maybe u can help her change if she is willing to
2006-12-21 04:48:17 · answer #10 · answered by brattybabe420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋