i am already in a new relationship with this girl, but in not sure if she is the one i really love..because she is very much similar to my Ex!! some times i see my Ex when my girlfriend is doing things thet my ex usually does...what i mean is, its like being inlove with this person with two faces...will i tell my girlfriend about it??what will i do??
2006-12-21 04:43:07 · 8 answers · asked by spawn_83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wow tough question. I would say if you left your ex for the same reasons your girlfriend is doing now I don't think you will be happy. You can't change people.....
2006-12-21 04:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't have to mean you're still in love with your ex. it called following a pattern. often we picked another person with the same traits as the last one because that is what we are used to. but, if that person has the same traits or you're going through the same things that you did with the last one, and those are the reasons you broke up then break the pattern. find soneone that is the complete opposite of the last. it's very common and we rarely ever see it.
2006-12-21 12:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by NoDeal21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go of your past with your ex, if you can't then let go of your new one.
If you are saying you picked the same person, just a different face, common mistake. Start a new and try to recognize the characteristics you don't enjoy and stay away from that type of person.
2006-12-21 12:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by bridgette c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is my opinion, but i think you still really like your ex, come on you found someone who is almost exactly like her. I think you should really think about your feelings towards both of them, and if it turns out that your feelings for your ex are still there maybe you should try getting a break from both of them and really think things out. Maybe you'll find that you really don't need them.
2006-12-21 12:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by blue_chocolate97 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you WILL do...
but what you should do is find out what quality your ex has that made you want to break up with her, and then find out if your new girlfriend has the same quality.
2006-12-21 12:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by waaaaaac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't forgot your Ex. so it's better to cool down with her first. You only love her because you remember the qualities of your Ex. Talk to her and good luck.
2006-12-21 12:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well some girls are simliar and don;t tell her cause then she might get the wrong idea and think that you thin about her all the time it better to just forget about your ex and never make the same mistake again
2006-12-21 12:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See this girl for who she is--not for who your ex was.
2006-12-21 12:45:31 · answer #8 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋