2006-12-21 04:28:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
teat them as nice as possible and aways do good, don't do nothing to harm others, sooner or later that person will change ther attitude towards u, for treating them good in the good times or bad times.
2006-12-21 04:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I honestly think that you should give up on the person that treats you badly. The person that treats you badly is not worthy of your friendship, so why should you have to put up with their drama and the fact that this person does not treat you with respect? I would just tell it like it is and let it go and continue to let it go. You can forgive that person, but you will never forget what that person has done to you. What goes around, comes around and it is a lesson learned. What it all boils down to is that you don't want a friend to treat you like a piece of crap so why deal with it?
2006-12-21 12:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look at it like this, you love them, and love means wanting the best for the other person. It means you have to be selfless at times. Now, you might take this the wrong way and think that it means you have to let them treat you poorly because you love them, but this is as far from the truth as you can get. If you love them and truly want the best for them, you want them to have the ability to be in a healthy and loving relationship. One that they are not experiencing while with you as they are obviously not treating you right. They don't yet realize that they can not be this way. They have been getting away with it, there has been no experience to teach them otherwise. If you love them, you should be willing to sacrfice the relationship to teach them this. It isn't easy, it hurts, and you'll have doubts, but in the end it is better for both of you. Let them know why you are leaving so they can have no doubts, and you may have possibly given them reason to change their ways for future relationships. Don't just take them back if they say they are sorry, they won't and can't learn the truth like this. And keep in mind that you will be able to love another in time, but it is going to hurt first. I'm sorry things couldn't have worked out better, but you can make them better right now. Follow your heart, what does it really mean to be in love? If you love someone, set them free.
2006-12-21 12:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously your love for them is not changing how they treat you. Over time dont you think your love will get chipped away ? Life is too short girl. Why stay with someone who treats you bad ? You dont get the time back after it passes so make the most of the time you have. Dump the loser.
2006-12-21 12:33:36 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should give up! What kind of sick person "loves" someone who treats them badly? That's not love, that's just very unhealthy.
2006-12-21 12:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a person treats you badly, they're not ready to love you. Move on.
2006-12-21 12:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by danielleb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know I would. It wouldn't be love if someone treated you bad. Love is all GOOD. Why let some one control your emotions so you keep on hurting inside when you can have someone who can show you what love, happiness and respect is. .
2006-12-21 12:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on exactly how did they treat you badly, what did they do, and were they under a lot of stress or something, what's the situation?
2006-12-21 12:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by shoppingdiva 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes honey asap, i know that at the time you feel you love the person but once you are out of such mess there is always someone better on the other side
2006-12-21 12:31:39 · answer #9 · answered by starlight♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where is your self esteem? Do you love that person more than you love yourself? Get yourself into therapy, there are alot of young people especially young females that don't understand where to draw the line in terms of whats exceptable and whats not in relationships. Please don't allow anyone to physically, mentally, emotionally or verbally abuse you. NEVER, NEVER, NEVER. Please seek counseling to help you figure why you choose guys/women that are bad for you.
2006-12-21 12:36:36 · answer #10 · answered by jupitor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋