I think i am loving my head over him, what should i do, i need advice cause i cant think clearly anymore?
Should i go with him , HELP???
i met this guy randomly and we already went out to 3 days, i really like him and seems like he likes me too.....recently we asked me to go to atlantic city with him for 2 days.....and i really wanna go, but i am not sure, if i should........especially now that he knows that i am a virgin.........i think the main reason i wanna go with him is because i really wanna try sex, and i am 22 now, so i think i could be a great start to my adult life,.....i know we probably wont be together for long, but i am very attracted to him now....so what do you think? should i go or not?? and how should i stay it to my parents , i am still living with them.....and they still think of me as if of a very good cathlic virgin girl.
2006-12-21 04:21:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Why do you need to do this in Atlantic City?
Keep in mind:
You met him "Randomly" (no common interests, I'm guessing)
You've known him for three, count 'em, three days.
He "seems" to like you (how often do things turn out as they seem?). And there's a difference between liking someone and wanting to get into their pants!
2006-12-21 04:25:16 · answer #1 · answered by Bugmän 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm..... this section is.....
Cultures & Groups > Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered
I think you are in the wrong area. Why would a good virgin catholic girl come to the LGBT forum for advice??
And if you are a good virgin catholic girl why are you thinking about running off to AC with a guy you just met?
I am a free thinker, so I will say go have some SAFE fun if that is what you want to do. You are 22 and a big girl. You only need to please yourself, not your parents or friends. Live your life for you, the way you see fit.
2006-12-21 04:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KEEP YOUR SKIRT ON!!! Trust me you'll have many other chances to go to some rank hotel room in the AC to have sex. You DONT want to lose your virnity THERE do you? Come on, if you held out this long, you can hold out a little longer for someone who for one you know more than 3 dam days and to for someone who REALLY is interested in YOU (not ur virginity). You want it to be memorable and special. NOT RANDOM. Ths is waaaaaaaaaaayyyy to RANDOM of a guy and situation. Dont set yourself up to go, andAVE to stay in a room with HIM and be PREASURED. What if you change your mind? then what? ---NOT a good idea. USE your dam HEAD- please.
2006-12-21 04:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by peacfulwar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first, why is this in the Lesbian/Gay section? Second, if you want to lose your virginity to someone don't you think you should get to know them a little better? You've held on this long, why not wait until you are sure.
2006-12-21 04:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your virginity can only be lost once. Don't give it up to someone you "just met". Make him jump hurdles to get it. If he waits the time, then he's more likely really into you.
One more thing. Do you know his history? How do you know he's free of diseases?
2006-12-21 04:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by kickbutt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Atlantic city and have a great fun kinky time! Use condoms though. I know how you feel. I'm 19 and still a virgin and it's hard for me to keep it in my pants at times too.
2006-12-21 04:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by Sebastian 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well...the first thing you should know is NEVER put all of your trust in someone that you just met because what their gonna do is see that you are vulnerable and they are gonna take to advantage, yea you wanna live life to the fullest but as we all know "curiosity killed the cat"..be wise. Done rush to trust him..take your time to get to know him,what have you got to loose? But yea you might wanna wait on that trip...get to him and his ways...see what he's like.
**ADi0S**
2006-12-21 04:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by MRS'SZ TWiX 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not go with the guy, no how much you think you like him. If he is a mature decent man, he will "court" you in a gentlemanly manner, be respectful of your values.
2006-12-21 04:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If your culture and society allow you to have free sex,, then yes why not ,, if there is implications to what you are going to do then be careful,,, may be oral sex will be good enough to calm you down and he will be attached further to you
2006-12-21 04:27:11 · answer #9 · answered by herosam2002 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get on a bed with your butt raised high and tell him to take you good and hard. Believe me... you'll feel better when its over.
2006-12-22 20:47:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋