DO not have sex with her until after youmarry. Are you a virgin if so remain one.
Are you saying that the foreskin has a tight hole that if you get erection first and then try to get your glans penis (the front arow like part of penis) out of the foreskin it is to tight to get out. Are yousaying that the foreskin is very tight around penis and does not slide back and forth over the hard penis?
Of course if it does not come out when engorged with blood =then you need to take it out before you get erection.
If you do that and it is so tight that is restricts full engorgemenet then you need to do something.
ONe thing you can do is to stretch the skin.
It is possible to stretch the skin.
For ages men who have had tehmselves circumcized and the regretted it have been able to uncircumsize their penis. Skin is elastic. All skin is elastic. If you gently stretch it (gently I said)) for a long time it will grow larger. SOme persons who have been fat for a long time end up wiht skin that if they lose wieght is flabby and they can not get rid of it. There is all this extra skin on their tourso.
If you feel the foreskin is to tight you can gently while the penis is lymp pull on it for quite a long period of time several times a day. I do not mean rub it or masturbate I mean stretch it gently but as fara s it will stretch ( which is quite a bit especilyif it is limp) or you can try to get a partial erection. that migh tbe the most helpful way to do it. if it is paratially erect that has stretched the skin some and if you pullit up and away fomr the shaft and out towards the front this should if applied steadily for a while helpit.
For the most part this is what these pumps that they sell do. THeymake the penis look bigger by causing there to be more skin in that area. So do not be fooled into thinkin that your penis canget larger.
There are also things you can eat that will ( might ) help it grow a little bit.
Have you been masturbating recently.
I can say this that if you are goginto be maried in a while. the best sex you shoul dhave in your life shoud be the first sex you have with your wife. I hope she and you are both virgins.
DO not masturbate for a while. let your reserve of semianl fluid build up?
DO you get erections when you are around your wife to be? Are you sexually attracted to her? OR are you in Love with her?
Persons can teach them self to love anyone and they can teach themself to get excioted by anyone or anything they want to teach themself to be excited about. Sex takes place in your mind not in your pants.
I hope you read what els I say about his and related topics. GOd really loves you and the fact hat he created a special person to be your wife and he created you to be her special husband is wonderful. make sure you love GOd becasue without loveing GOd it is hard to really love another human being even ones wife.
If your foreskin is tight then I must ask are you washing it well. And have you been doing that for life?
emai me and explain in detail just exactly how your penis is and the way the foreskin is then I may be able to suggest things to do to stretchit more successfully. I can tell you about stuff tha could help if you email me seperately that I am not allowed to tel you about over this yahoo system.
when you get your glans out and you really get your penis hard ( ussually that happens just at the begining of an erection cycle what is the condition of the skin just under the glans. Is it soft and tender. IF you pull it does it hurt. IS it wet and slimy in there? does it hurt badly if you pull the foreskin all the way back and pull the skin away fomr the underside of the tip of the penis. IS the skin dry and full or is it shiny and thin?
Explain how it is. Then I can sugget things you can do to fix it.
IF it hurts when you do that if it is very tender and sore that caneoither be very good or not so good. It can be good if your new wife is goignto want to be very erotic with you in bed and touch oyu and pleasuer you beceue some itmes that can be a part of the pleassure of sex. For example if she gives you filatio.
BUt if she dislikes that then you need to try to clean up that area and keep it clean and you vneed to spend time having the skin pulled all the way back with your penis either hard or soft and allowing air to ge tot he skin and dry it up. It is in the wet condition it is in becau eyou have not washed nd dried it corectlya nd let air get to it.
Even guys who are circumcised who do not take some care for that part of their body can get conditions like this.
Do you understand what I mean and am saying? Email me answwwerman@yahoo.com
Get some pumpkin seeds ( raw ) and eat them daily a handfull or two. eat about a pound a week. that should help your body make more seminal fluid. It might excite you sexually a littel bit. That is good.
Unfortunately you have tought yourself that masturbation is a good way to have sexual pleasure. It is better fro your mind to think that the only way one shouyld have sexual pleasure is when their wife provides it to them.
Your body no longer belongs to you. In fact it never did . YOur body belongs to your wife. It is her's to do as she pleases with. It is hers for her to use to get sexual gratification in. Her body is not hers it is yours. It is for you to get your sexual satisfaction through. It should excite you sexually an dpelase you to see her body and to touch it. That shoul dbe ther sorurce of al you erotic sexual excitement and anything else sexual should be disgusting to you. THat is the heart of a successful marriage.
YOu do not demand tha use of here body she provides it to you and takes pleasure in the fact that you and no one else is able or allowed to use her body for that purpose Likewise she with you.
Two persons husband and wife should eachbe tryign to satisfy the needs of the other. That is what a marriage is all about. Prepareing yourself to be a great husband and her a great wife is learning how to be some one who can know and realize what the needs and wants of the other person are. Ther aremany ways to learn to do that one is to learn is to ask her? And help her figure out what the answer is.
Please clarify the question and email it to me seperately answwwerman@yahoo.com
May GOd bless you and save you and help you with your marriage. Ask God out loud to save you and have your wife ask the same thing out loud. THen you will have the greatest marriage. There will always be three in bed you and here and GOd. THat is the best sex. That is the best life. studies and polls have shown this to be true for decades. Theyhave the best sex who have the salvatino expereince. Becasue it can rtelly be satisfying.
Deeply satisfying. THat is waht most of us seek. True love.
2006-12-21 04:52:51
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answered by Answer M 3
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MASTURBATION MYTHS:
from http://www.jackinworld.com/library/myths.html
Chances are, of all the things you've heard about masturbation, most of them were absolutely false. For some reason, misinformation surrounds masturbation like virtually no other topic. How do you spot a masturbation myth? One simple method is to ask yourself if the statement is also true of sexual intercourse. When you're masturbating, your body only knows it's getting sexually stimulated; it doesn't know by what means. So, for instance, if the question is whether or not masturbation causes acne, think of it this way: If it did, intercourse would also cause acne. In fact, neither masturbation nor intercourse cause acne.
MYTH:
Masturbation causes hair to grow on your palms.
FACT:
How many people with hair on their palms have you seen?
MYTH:
Masturbation causes hair loss, chronic fatigue, and other problems.
FACT:
Internet scam artists have tried to invent a concept called "overmasturbation," insisting that you have to buy their expensive herbal pills in order to counteract the effect of masturbating more than a couple of times per week. But the pills have absolutely no effect — and masturbating once or twice a day will not make your hair fall out, or cause anything else they claim.
MYTH:
Masturbation is bad for your eyesight.
FACT:
Masturbation does not affect eyesight. This myth probably originated because boys often start having to wear glasses at about the same age they start masturbating.
MYTH:
Masturbation causes your penis to stop growing (or) to get bigger.
FACT:
Masturbation has no effect on penis size whatsoever.
MYTH:
Masturbation causes your testicles to shrink.
FACT:
Absolutely false! It is true that if you're highly aroused, your testicles become engorged with blood and may appear slightly larger and heavier, and that masturbating will make them revert to normal. But they will absolutely not be any smaller than after the last time you masturbated.
MYTH:
Masturbation causes acne.
FACT:
It doesn't cause acne. Like the eyesight myth, this is a case of two things that happen at the same time, even though one doesn't cause the other.
MYTH:
Masturbation causes sexually transmitted diseases.
FACT:
Hello? "Sexually transmitted" means from one person to another. You can't give yourself a sexually transmitted disease!
MYTH:
If you masturbate too much, you'll run out of semen and become sterile.
FACT:
Semen is a fully renewable resource. When you ejaculate semen, your body simply makes more — the same way your body makes more saliva after you spit.
MYTH:
People can tell whether you masturbate by how your penis looks.
FACT:
Masturbation does not change the appearance of your penis. (It does tend to cause an erection, but that usually goes away when you're finished.)
2006-12-21 04:57:28
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answered by Anonymous
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There is no problem in masturbation. It will not make you impotent.
For your foreskin, I think you will reqire circumcission. It is a small operation where tight foreskin is removed. You will have to be in hospital for 6-7 hrs.
2006-12-21 15:31:06
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answered by Anonymous
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I don't know about the foreskin thing cuz I am cut but the other thing I do! It is fine that you are a pud whackin champ, it actually helps last longer in bed. Masterbate really slow to prolong intercourse!!! Practice makes perfect.
2006-12-21 04:33:04
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answered by Andrew P 2
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if its hurts during sex/mast then go to a doctor
and then he make a little cut NO hurt and then after two week you can have sex again
i did have the same P but now its good
and im married and im still mast
mr chaann
2006-12-21 04:25:17
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answered by mr.chann 1
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If your forskin will not retract fully you will be in a lot of pain having sex. You should consult a doctor, It can be stretched, or removed - easily.
2006-12-21 13:13:14
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answered by Anonymous
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Shut up HawkOhio, you're just a loser with nothing better to do than to talk sh*t on the internet because you are cyberbrave. Loser!!
2006-12-21 04:34:20
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answered by three6ty 4
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I am married and i jerk off more then all my friends combined, honestly, its no big deal unless your wife is a jerk off nazi
2006-12-21 04:40:40
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answered by Bowser 2
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Go to a doctor, and show him the foreskin problem.
2006-12-21 04:39:09
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answered by Anonymous
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It sounds like you're a virgin ! It will all work out !
2006-12-21 04:21:58
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answered by Anonymous
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