How do you end an affair with someone you love madly?

Answer 1

cold turkey
No good byes.
No reasons.
Just stop.

Answer 2

Why would you want end an end an affair with someone you love? you only end an affair if the other person is married or the relationship has gone bad. It's very hard to leave someone you love but you have to think about your future with this person. If you think it won't work then you have no choice but to end it, you're wasting your time & it stops you from moving on. You just have to ask yourself 1 question, & that question is 'am i happy?' & only you & you alone know the answer to that question. Once you have thought of the answer, then you'll know what to do & you would've answered your own question. Hope it works out for you.

Answer 3

What kind of affair?

Is it 2 man?

You can only love one.

If, everybody in the world loves more than 1 person, then technically, its possible for everybody to fall in love with everybody.

Then that's not love.

In life, it's very hard to please everyone, but decisions still have to be made, if you love your affair, then break up with your current partner, secracy can't last v long.

It's just a matter of time tat you will be exposed then you will lose both.

How to end an affair:

1: Keep a conversation short and concised.

2: Be sure of what you want/decided, before you confront him.

3: Upon telling him, don't let the emotions get the bettle of you.

4: Don't turn back. (Regret your decision)

5: Try not to think about it afterwards.

6: Move on to your new life.

Answer 4

I can feel your pain, I had a affair and broke it off but it was the deep friendship that was harder to give up because it was so lacking for many years in a dysfunctional marriage. It is almost like cutting ones leg off and trying to function normally. I finally filed for divorce not because of the affair but because of a non-relationship in the marriage.

What helped me make the decision to leave the marriage was doing a time line of the relationship because the affair is just the tip of the Iceberg per say. You have to be very honest with yourself and it will show you how and why the marriage was not working. Given that information you would be in a much better position to either work on your marriage or to leave it.

Good luck

Answer 5

This affair should have never been started if one or both of you is married. Where is the loyalty in relationships today. Do what is morally correct and just swallow the tears and walk away. I feel sorry for the other spouses involved because they did not ask to be put in this situation. Your actions are ultimately going to hurt alot of innocent people so if you have any decency left inside of you put your own feelings away and think about someone else for once.

Answer 6

Why end the affair if you love someone madly, a bit contradictory.

Answer 7

i was with a man for 3 years (he was married and i was divorced) I loved him more than anything, but I told him that I couldn't wait forever, that if the right guy ever came along that I would be gone. Last year I met that guy and my "boyfriend" was very upset and concerned--he's a cop. he asked every question under the sun about this guy to make sure he was legit. I have now been married for about 9 months to the greatest guy that I've ever known in my life!! You'll find the right person, just when you aren't looking they'll walk in the door.

Answer 8

For those of you so quick to answer, it is a lot easier said then done like most things in life. I know that I can relate to you girl and if I had the right answer for you I then would know what to do in my situation. I know that it has to end but when feelings get so strong it starts to hurt you become lost. Ultimately you/we need to decide who we want more, you only get one chance at life and why waste time being unhappy. I hope you figure it out because that will then give me hope as well. Good Luck dear.

Answer 9

you should end it as soon as you can because the longer it carries on the worser you will be hurt emotionally in the long run. Although you love someone you have got to learn love does hurt and you are bound to have heartache but always remember if you walk away from a relationship and you look back on it if you had more smiles than tears it was worth the time spent.

Answer 10

Tell them you care about them but it needs to end and when you say its done really be done with it. Affairs are not good for the soul. It will be hard at first but then with time it will get better.

Answer 11

why would u end an affair with sum one u love madly?